{"id":6168,"date":"2026-01-17T17:51:06","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T14:51:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=6168"},"modified":"2026-01-17T17:51:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T14:51:07","slug":"her-kirik-yeni-bir-isik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/her-kirik-yeni-bir-isik","title":{"rendered":"Her K\u0131r\u0131k Yeni Bir I\u015f\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 3 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0131r\u0131lmak deyince akl\u0131n\u0131za g\u00fczel an\u0131lar m\u0131 yoksa k\u00f6t\u00fc an\u0131lar m\u0131 geliyor? \u00c7o\u011fu ki\u015fiye<\/p>\n\n\n\n

k\u0131r\u0131lmak denilince akl\u0131m\u0131za birinin bizi incitme anlar\u0131, a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar hatta kendimize<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cneden b\u00f6yle oldu\u201d diye sordu\u011fumuz anlar bile gelir. Ama ben bu k\u0131r\u0131lman\u0131n iyi bir taraf\u0131<\/p>\n\n\n\n

oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum o da k\u0131r\u0131lman\u0131n bir t\u00fcr uyan\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. <\/strong>Asl\u0131nda her k\u0131r\u0131lma an\u0131m\u0131z bize<\/p>\n\n\n\n

kendimizi yeniden kurma f\u0131rsat\u0131 verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131na k\u0131r\u0131lmaz de\u011fil mi? \u0130nsan bazen kendine de k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r ne de olsa en sert<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ele\u015ftiriyi herkes kendine yapar. Mesela ben en \u00e7ok, kendi beklentilerimi kar\u015f\u0131layamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

i\u00e7in kendime k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131m. Bir \u015feyi ba\u015faramad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ya da olaylar planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fekilde<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ilerlemedi\u011finde hep kafamdaki ses \u201cyine olmad\u0131\u201d, \u201cyine yapamad\u0131n\u201d diyor. Ama bir s\u00fcre<\/p>\n\n\n\n

sonra fark ettim ki bu k\u0131r\u0131lma asl\u0131nda herhangi bir yetersizlik ya da g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc<\/p>\n\n\n\n

g\u00f6stermiyormu\u015f ve her k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k bir zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011filmi\u015f. As\u0131l g\u00fc\u00e7; par\u00e7alanmamak de\u011fil,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

par\u00e7aland\u0131ktan sonra k\u00fcllerinden yeniden do\u011fmakm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bunun fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an en b\u00fcy\u00fck yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kendine duydu\u011fun \u015fefkat oldu\u011funu<\/p>\n\n\n\n

anl\u0131yorsunuz. Ben bunun fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan beri kafamdaki o \u201cyine yapamad\u0131m\u201d sesi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

susmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 onun yerine art\u0131k \u201cEvet can\u0131m yand\u0131, \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm ama hayat dair yeni \u015feyler<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00f6\u011frendim\u201d sesini daha \u00e7ok duyuyorum. Bunu demeyi \u00f6\u011frenmek yeniden do\u011fu\u015fun ilk ad\u0131md\u0131r<\/p>\n\n\n\n

asl\u0131nda. K\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131k zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fildir, bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r ve her k\u0131r\u0131k bir sonraki<\/p>\n\n\n\n

g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ad\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n rehberidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Belki de k\u0131r\u0131lmadan ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz bir hayat tam anlam\u0131yla ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen<\/p>\n\n\n\n

en g\u00fczel yanlar\u0131m\u0131z, k\u0131r\u0131k yerlerimizden s\u0131zar. Art\u0131k biliyoruz ki k\u0131r\u0131lmak bizi g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz ya da<\/p>\n\n\n\n

yetersiz yapm\u0131yor aksine her k\u0131r\u0131lma bizi kendimize daha fazla yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unutmay\u0131n, her k\u0131r\u0131lma i\u00e7imizdeki \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Yeter ki o \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

s\u00f6nmedi\u011fine inanal\u0131m.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yazar: Cemrenaz Asma<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cUnutmay\u0131n, her k\u0131r\u0131lma i\u00e7imizdeki \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Yeter ki o \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n
\ns\u00f6nmedi\u011fine inanal\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6169,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nHer K\u0131r\u0131k Yeni Bir I\u015f\u0131k | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/her-kirik-yeni-bir-isik\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Her K\u0131r\u0131k Yeni Bir I\u015f\u0131k | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta 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