{"id":6139,"date":"2026-01-29T02:14:36","date_gmt":"2026-01-28T23:14:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=6139"},"modified":"2026-01-29T02:17:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T23:17:37","slug":"sikayet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/sikayet","title":{"rendered":"\u015eik\u00e2yet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\u0130nsanlar\u0131n neredeyse hepsi, hayat\u0131ndaki bir\u00e7ok durumdan \u015fik\u00e2yet\u00e7idir. Kimi i\u015finden, kimi \u00e7evresinden, kimi ise bamba\u015fka \u015feylerden; ama hepsi hayat\u0131ndaki bir ya da birden fazla par\u00e7adan \u015fik\u00e2yet eder. Bu, bizim en k\u00f6t\u00fc benzerli\u011fimiz olabilir: \u015eik\u00e2yet etmek. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda var olan bir objenin ya da bir durumun daha iyi bir versiyonunun ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 yeterlidir; o var olan \u015feyden \u015fik\u00e2yet etmemiz i\u00e7in. Bunun en b\u00fcy\u00fck nedeni ise k\u0131yaslama ve k\u0131yaslanma durumudur. Bu durumun temel sebebi ise toplumun ta kendisidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\u0130nsanl\u0131k geli\u015ftik\u00e7e k\u0131yaslama da artmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Kendini ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan daha iyi yapabilmek i\u00e7in, elindekinin en iyisi olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131; en iyisi olsa bile, daha iyisini var etmekle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131. S\u0131rf&nbsp; \u201cben en iyisiyim\u201d diyebilmek ya da insanlar\u0131n kendilerini onunla k\u0131yaslayabilmesi amac\u0131yla\u2026 Bu durum, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n geli\u015fmesine b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fayda sa\u011flad\u0131, evet; fakat bir yandan da \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorunu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131: \u015eik\u00e2yet etmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;En iyisini alamayan ya da yapamayan insanlar, \u015fik\u00e2yet etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eik\u00e2yet edebilmek art\u0131k onlar i\u00e7in ba\u015fka bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yoluydu; kendilerini \u201cben de bu durumdan memnun de\u011filim\u201d diyerek rahatlatabiliyorlard\u0131. Bu da maalesef insanlar\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden tam anlam\u0131yla memnun olamamas\u0131na neden oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Her yenili\u011fin iyi yanlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc yanlar\u0131 da vard\u0131r. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n geli\u015fmesi, insanlar\u0131 bir memnuniyetsizli\u011fe s\u00fcr\u00fcklemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda her \u015fey yolunda olsa bile; biten \u015farja, havlayan k\u00f6pe\u011fe ya da hafif\u00e7e s\u00fcrt\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz duvara bile \u015fik\u00e2yet eder olduk. Tam anlam\u0131yla memnun olabilme yetimizi kaybeder h\u00e2le geldik.<\/strong> Memnun olmak art\u0131k bir se\u00e7enek bile de\u011fildir. Elindekilerle yetinmek kimsenin tercihi de\u011fildir ve bunun en temel nedeni ise buna al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olmam\u0131zd\u0131r. O kadar \u00e7ok \u015fik\u00e2yet eder olduk ki, art\u0131k bu duruma al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Bazen baz\u0131 durumlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc olmaz. Olsa bile kimse u\u011fra\u015fmak istemez; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm asl\u0131nda kimsenin i\u015fine gelmez. Bahsini etti\u011fim durum da maalesef bunlardan biridir. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc olmayan durumlardan en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu, ac\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ek. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ac\u0131nas\u0131 bir durumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">Yazar: Merve Co\u015fkun&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pin.it\/3WSuWdL8o\">https:\/\/pin.it\/3WSuWdL8o<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda her \u015fey yolunda olsa bile; biten \u015farja, havlayan k\u00f6pe\u011fe ya da hafif\u00e7e s\u00fcrt\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz duvara bile \u015fik\u00e2yet eder olduk. Tam anlam\u0131yla memnun olabilme yetimizi kaybeder h\u00e2le geldik.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6200,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>\u015eik\u00e2yet | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/sikayet\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u015eik\u00e2yet | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" 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