{"id":6136,"date":"2025-12-20T13:02:07","date_gmt":"2025-12-20T10:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=6136"},"modified":"2025-12-20T13:02:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T10:02:07","slug":"kirik-kalbin-sessiz-ogretisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/kirik-kalbin-sessiz-ogretisi","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131r\u0131k Kalbin Sessiz \u00d6\u011fretisi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>(<\/strong>Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 4 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birini \u00e7ok sevmi\u015fti. \u00d6yle sessizce de\u011fil, delicesine, y\u00fcre\u011finin b\u00fct\u00fcn sesiyle sevmi\u015fti. G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u00fcnya biraz daha sessizle\u015fir, kalbi biraz daha huzur bulurdu. Ama zamanla fark etti ki, o sessizlik asl\u0131nda kendi sesinin k\u0131s\u0131lmas\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. Ne\u015fesini onun g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne, de\u011ferini onun ilgisine, huzurunu da onun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. O yokken eksikti, o varken ise tamam oldu\u011funu sanard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevdi\u011fi insan bir g\u00fcn uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, sanki ruhunun en de\u011ferli par\u00e7as\u0131 da onunla beraber gitmi\u015fti. Garipti&#8230; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o gidince sadece onsuz kalmam\u0131\u015f, kendi benli\u011fini de yitirmi\u015fti. Aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc y\u00fcz art\u0131k ona tan\u0131d\u0131k gelmiyordu. De\u011fi\u015fmi\u015fti; sevilmek i\u00e7in kendisinden vazge\u00e7mi\u015f, hayallerini birer birer kendi elleriyle yok etmi\u015fti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendisi olmaktan korkmu\u015ftu. K\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n diye kendi i\u00e7indeki sesi susturmu\u015ftu. Fakat i\u00e7indeki sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar g\u00f6zlerinden okunabiliyordu. Art\u0131k o, kendi filminde bir fig\u00fcran olmu\u015ftu. Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015f, yoklu\u011fu ise bir g\u00fcnah gibi a\u011f\u0131r gelmi\u015fti. Sesini duymamak, g\u00f6zlerini g\u00f6rmemek, onun i\u00e7in sevmek sanki cezas\u0131 olmayan bir su\u00e7 gibiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birine bu kadar teslim olmay\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131n merkezine koymay\u0131 a\u015fk sanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 belki de. Oysa ger\u00e7ek sevgi insan\u0131 eksiltmezdi, kendinden bu kadar vazge\u00e7mesine izin vermezdi. Fakat bunu kendini kaybettikten sonra anlayabildi. Sevilmek u\u011fruna sustu\u011fu her c\u00fcmlenin, kendi benli\u011fine b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ihanet oldu\u011funu fark etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir sabah, i\u00e7inden gelen tan\u0131d\u0131k bir ses duydu. \u00c7ok k\u0131s\u0131k, ama kararl\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cArt\u0131k yeter.\u201d diyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mutlu olmay\u0131 hak etti\u011fini biliyor ve kendini iyile\u015ftirebilmenin en g\u00fczel yolunun yeniden kendisi olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini biliyordu. O g\u00fcnden sonra kimseyi su\u00e7lamad\u0131. Ne onu terk edeni ne de onu yar\u0131m b\u0131rakan\u0131&#8230; Sadece te\u015fekk\u00fcr etti i\u00e7inden. Art\u0131k tamamlanmak i\u00e7in, kendisi gibi olabilmek i\u00e7in kimseye ihtiya\u00e7 duymuyordu. Sonunda as\u0131l sevginin, as\u0131l mutlulu\u011fun kendi i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve o g\u00fcn, ilk defa kimseye ihtiya\u00e7 duymadan tamam hissetti. Kendini affetti. Kendini sevdi. En \u00f6nemlisi de kendini kimse i\u00e7in de\u011fi\u015ftirmedi. Kalbinin k\u0131r\u0131k yerlerinden \u0131\u015f\u0131k s\u0131zmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k biliyordu:<strong> \u201cA\u015fk, iki ki\u015finin birbirine s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmas\u0131 de\u011fil;<br>iki kalbin kendi b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc koruyarak yan yana durabilmesiydi.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">Buse Nur Katar&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">G\u00f6rsel Kayna\u011f\u0131: <a href=\"https:\/\/pin.it\/78pIJcqvI\">https:\/\/pin.it\/78pIJcqvI<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> \u201cA\u015fk, iki ki\u015finin birbirine s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmas\u0131 de\u011fil;<br \/>\niki kalbin kendi b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc koruyarak yan yana 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