{"id":6088,"date":"2025-11-22T18:55:30","date_gmt":"2025-11-22T15:55:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=6088"},"modified":"2025-11-22T18:55:31","modified_gmt":"2025-11-22T15:55:31","slug":"yol-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yol-3","title":{"rendered":"Yol"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi\u00e7 durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz oldu mu? Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayat\u0131\u2026 Bazen kendimizi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat\u0131n ko\u015fu\u015fturmacas\u0131na o kadar \u00e7ok kapt\u0131r\u0131yoruz ki belki yola ba\u015flarken ne istedi\u011fimizi unutuyor, belki o yolda ko\u015farken ge\u00e7irdi\u011fimiz d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla yeni bir yol belirlememiz gerekti\u011fini fark edemiyoruz. Arzular\u0131m\u0131z ve ko\u015fmaya devam etti\u011fimiz yol birbirleriyle uyum i\u00e7erisinde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de nihai son ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz oluyor. Mutsuzluk\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elbette size mutlulu\u011fun form\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00fc anlatmayaca\u011f\u0131m bu sat\u0131rlarda \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00f6yle bir form\u00fcl\u00fcn var olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilebilecek olgunlukta bir insan\u0131m ama benden mutlulu\u011fu tan\u0131mlamam\u0131 isteseydiniz size \u015fu \u015fekilde tan\u0131mlard\u0131m:<strong> \u201cMutluluk, g\u00fcne\u015fe benzer. Zaman zaman sizi \u0131s\u0131t\u0131r ama ne zaman gelece\u011fini ya da gidece\u011fini bilemez ve asla elinizde tutamaz, saklayamazs\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Biz insanlar de\u011fi\u015febilen varl\u0131klar\u0131z. Hangimiz bir y\u0131l, bir ay ve hatta belki de bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nceki kendiyle ayn\u0131 duygulara, ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere, ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flara sahip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyebilir? Hi\u00e7birimiz, dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim. Bir an i\u00e7in siz de bir y\u0131l, bir ay, bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nceki sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz de\u011fil mi? Ne kadar \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015fsiniz, de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015fiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015fey, hissetti\u011fimiz her duygu, kimselerin duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ama bizim yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdan bir an bile olsun ayr\u0131lmayan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimiz yani i\u00e7 sesimiz\u2026 T\u00fcm bunlar de\u011fi\u015firken arzular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da de\u011fi\u015febilece\u011fini, de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini g\u00f6rmemek, g\u00f6rmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak kendimize yapabilece\u011fimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck haks\u0131zl\u0131klardan biri de\u011fil mi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayattan, ko\u015ftu\u011fumuz o yoldan ba\u015fka bir yol, ba\u015fka bir hayat olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fka bir se\u00e7ene\u011fimizin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek kolayd\u0131r; bizi kayg\u0131dan uzak tutar. Rol yapmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z. Mutluymu\u015f gibi davran\u0131r\u0131z. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz g\u00fcl\u00fcyordur ama kimse i\u00e7imizin a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmez ve bu durumun en ac\u0131 olan k\u0131sm\u0131 ise bazen i\u00e7imizin a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendi kendimize bile itiraf edemeyiz, etmeyiz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sonunu bildi\u011fimiz yolun, ad\u0131m ataca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yeni bir yoldan \u00e7ok daha g\u00fcvenli oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r\u0131z ya da kendimizi bir \u015fekilde inand\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Asl\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz yolun sonunun nereye varaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7birimiz bilemeyiz. Sadece bildi\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Her gece bir sonraki g\u00fcn g\u00fcne\u015fin do\u011faca\u011f\u0131na emin oldu\u011fumuza inan\u0131p asla kesinlikle do\u011faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyemememiz gibi\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir yerlerde ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015fka bir hayat\u0131n bulunup bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda hi\u00e7birimiz net bir yarg\u0131ya ula\u015famay\u0131z. Bu sebeple yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken arada s\u0131rada durup g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir s\u00fczge\u00e7 yard\u0131m\u0131yla d\u00fcn\u00fc, bug\u00fcn\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fczmeliyiz. Bilmeliyiz ki y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz hi\u00e7bir yolun sonucunun bir garantisi yok ve e\u011fer mutlulu\u011fa ger\u00e7ek anlamda ula\u015fmay\u0131 denemek istiyorsak de\u011fi\u015fimimizi reddetmek ya da g\u00f6rmezden gelmek yerine kabullenmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmeli, yeni yollarda y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi g\u00f6ze alabilmeliyiz. Bir g\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fck pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yapmad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z olmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Denemekten korkmayanlara\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">K\u00fcbra Fatma Demir<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pin.it\/vjlwbXWan\">https:\/\/pin.it\/vjlwbXWan<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cMutluluk, g\u00fcne\u015fe benzer. 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