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(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedalar hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak zordur \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kelimeler yetersiz kal\u0131r. \u201cHo\u015f\u00e7a kal\u201d deriz mesela, ama i\u00e7imizde f\u0131rt\u0131nalar eserken bunu ne kadar ger\u00e7ekten dileyebiliriz? Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iki kelimede eritmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z: g\u00fcle g\u00fcle. Oysa gidenin g\u00fclecek h\u00e2li yoktur, kalan ise s\u00f6ylemek isteyip de yutkunmak zorunda kald\u0131klar\u0131yla susar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan bir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n e\u015fi\u011findeyken, ne s\u00f6yleyece\u011fini bilemez. S\u00f6zc\u00fckler dudakta \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcr, bak\u0131\u015flar anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirir. Gidenin s\u0131rt\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fckt\u00fcr, kalan\u0131n g\u00f6zleri nemli. O an, zaman\u0131n bile geri \u00e7ekildi\u011fini hissedersin; sanki d\u00fcnya, iki insan\u0131n aras\u0131ndan ge\u00e7erek sessizce uzakla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 vedalar \u00e7ok \u00f6nceden ba\u015flar. S\u00f6ylenmeyen c\u00fcmlelerde, ertelenen y\u00fczle\u015fmelerde, al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f suskunluklarda\u2026<\/strong> Bir sabah her \u015fey yerli yerindeyken bile anlars\u0131n: bir \u015feyler \u00e7oktan gitmi\u015f. Veda yaln\u0131zca bir son de\u011fil, eksilmenin usulca kabul edili\u015fidir ama her ayr\u0131l\u0131k iz b\u0131rak\u0131r. Ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olursan ol, bir par\u00e7an eksilir o anda. Ruhun bir yan\u0131 \u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, zaman daha a\u011f\u0131r akar. Sessizlik kal\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r; \u00f6yle ki yaln\u0131zca kendi kalp at\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, eksilen sesin yank\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 da duyars\u0131n. Hafif bir dokunu\u015fu, yar\u0131m bir c\u00fcmleyi, art\u0131k olmayan bir varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zlersin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 vedalar sessizdir; \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atmaz, kap\u0131 \u00e7arpmaz. Yaln\u0131zca yava\u015f\u00e7a, i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ip gider. Ama en \u00e7ok da sessizlik zor gelir insana. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ac\u0131n\u0131n as\u0131l derinli\u011fi, bir daha hi\u00e7 konu\u015fulmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmekte yatar. Kap\u0131n\u0131n kapanmas\u0131ndan \u00e7ok, ard\u0131nda kalan bo\u015flu\u011fun so\u011fuklu\u011fu \u00fc\u015f\u00fct\u00fcr insan\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Derler ki, her veda insan\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Belki do\u011frudur. Ama baz\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcmeler, yaln\u0131zca daha fazla eksilmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 ayr\u0131l\u0131klar vard\u0131r ki, \u00fczerinden ne kadar zaman ge\u00e7erse ge\u00e7sin, ruhun bir yerinde s\u0131zlamaya devam eder. Ve o s\u0131z\u0131, insan\u0131n tam olarak iyile\u015fmesine asla izin vermez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Merve Gedik<\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/pin.it\/3P1N6m3Ju<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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