{"id":5844,"date":"2025-08-05T21:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-08-05T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=5844"},"modified":"2025-08-03T21:49:25","modified_gmt":"2025-08-03T18:49:25","slug":"sevgili-gunluk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/sevgili-gunluk","title":{"rendered":"SEVG\u0130L\u0130 G\u00dcNL\u00dcK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 3 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kanatlar\u0131 \u0131slanm\u0131\u015f bir kelebek misali dengemi kaybettim. Savruluyorum. Ben ve yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u2026 S\u0131zl\u0131yor art\u0131k yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n kemikleri. Kapatmak istiyor g\u00f6zlerini. Veda etmek istiyor bana ama ben b\u0131rakm\u0131yorum \u0131srarla. Sanki tutuyorum yakas\u0131ndan. Gitmesin istiyorum, beni terk etmesin istiyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00fczen bu ya!.. Ben gitmiyorum. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey ya da hi\u00e7 kimse de benden gitsin istemiyorum ama bir kural vard\u0131r ki hayat bir d\u00f6ng\u00fcd\u00fcr. Her \u015fey ve herkes bir g\u00fcn gider. Yeri dolar her \u015feyin ya da herkesin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Terzi kendi s\u00f6k\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc dikemez, demi\u015fler. Etraf\u0131ndaki herkese i\u015fe yarar tavsiyeler verip g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendine s\u00f6z ge\u00e7iremeyen o ki\u015fi benim i\u015fte! Trajikomik\u2026 S\u00f6z konusu kendim olunca mant\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bir kenara f\u0131rlat\u0131p at\u0131yorum. Kalbimin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinliyorum. Zaten ben her zaman hissettikleriyle ya\u015fayan bir insan\u0131m. Ne ac\u0131 ki zarar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de yarar\u0131n en g\u00fczelini de hep bu \u00f6zelli\u011fimden g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. G\u00f6r\u00fcyordum. D\u00fczeltmek istedim. Art\u0131k mant\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n da hayat\u0131ma uyum sa\u011flamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdilerde denizin suyunun \u00e7ekilmesi misali ben de ellerimi \u00e7ekiyorum kalabal\u0131k yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan. Teker teker ay\u0131klan\u0131yor kumsal\u0131mdan ta\u015flar. K\u0131y\u0131ya vurup uzakla\u015f\u0131yorlar. Sadece bu \u00e7ekilmenin ard\u0131ndan gelebilecek olan tsunami korkutuyor beni. Kald\u0131rabilir miyim onun \u015fiddetini?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cevab\u0131 olmayan sorular\u0131mla me\u015fhurum ben. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerim birbirine dolanm\u0131\u015f ipler gibi\u2026 D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm olmu\u015f sorular\u0131m.<\/strong> Cevaplar m\u0131? Yok. Asl\u0131nda bu \u00e7ok normal \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan dedi\u011fin nefes al\u0131p verdi\u011fi zaman\u0131 bilir, gelece\u011fi g\u00f6remez. Kayg\u0131 burada ba\u015flar. Bilinmezlik insan\u0131 daima korkutur ama belki de en keyifli taraf\u0131 budur. Her \u015feyi bilseydik nefes ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her bir dakikan\u0131n k\u0131ymetini bilmezdik ya da \u00f6nceden gelece\u011fini bildi\u011fimiz zorluklar\u0131 hen\u00fcz ya\u015famadan pes ederdik. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi birer ihtimal.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Art\u0131k sorular\u0131ma cevap da aram\u0131yorum. Sorular\u0131ma cevap aramay\u0131 b\u0131rakal\u0131 \u00e7ok oldu. Yoruldum. Dinlenmem gerekti\u011fini hissediyorum ve bu y\u00fczden en \u00e7ok da kendimle vakit ge\u00e7iriyorum. Son zamanlarda kalabal\u0131k yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n sesini de\u011fil de kendi bedenimin ve kendi ruhumun sesini dinliyorum. Sessizli\u011fi merhem olarak kullan\u0131yorum kabuk ba\u011flamaya ba\u015flayan yaralar\u0131ma. Biliyorum ki bir g\u00fcn kabuk ba\u011flayacak yaralar\u0131m ve dinecek ac\u0131m.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6mr\u00fc bir g\u00fcn olan kelebe\u011fin kanatlar\u0131 \u0131sland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yine de vazge\u00e7medi u\u00e7maktan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Son nefesine kadar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00fcbra Fatma Demir<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pin.it\/4T0A8JiFM\">https:\/\/pin.it\/4T0A8JiFM<\/a>  (Pinterest)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Cevab\u0131 olmayan sorular\u0131mla me\u015fhurum ben. 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