{"id":4808,"date":"2023-10-05T19:00:35","date_gmt":"2023-10-05T16:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=4808"},"modified":"2023-10-05T18:05:21","modified_gmt":"2023-10-05T15:05:21","slug":"aidiyet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/aidiyet","title":{"rendered":"Aidiyet"},"content":{"rendered":"

(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ne hissedece\u011fimi bilmiyorum. Uzun zamand\u0131r kendimi hi\u00e7bir yere ait hissetmiyorum. \u0130\u015fin asl\u0131 hissetmek de istemiyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc benim i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir yer olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. Ne zaman akl\u0131ma s\u0131\u011f\u0131nabilece\u011fim ve orada bir k\u00f6\u015feye k\u0131vr\u0131l\u0131p \u201cSorun yok.\u201d diye kendimi teselli edebilece\u011fim bir yer gelse ayn\u0131 \u00e2nda ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f yollar\u0131 da beliriyor. Var olmak ve yok olmak aras\u0131nda oturmu\u015f bekliyorum. Neyi bekledi\u011fimi de bilmiyorum ama biraz aceleci hissediyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman durmuyor. \u0130nsanlar, hayvanlar… Bir k\u00f6\u015fede zaman durmu\u015f sansak bile yapraklar d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye devam ediyor.\u00a0 \u0130\u00e7imdeki bo\u015fluk g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fcyor ve ben bu bo\u015flu\u011fu dolduracak bir \u015fey bulam\u0131yorum. Benden eksilenleri nerede bulabilirim? Zaman ilerledik\u00e7e yok oluyorum, bunu nas\u0131l durdurabilirim?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c2idiyet kavram\u0131 ne garip! Yaprak da a\u011faca aittir ama zaman\u0131 geldi\u011finde ondan kopmak zorundad\u0131r. Belki de insanlar da b\u00f6yledir. Aile, arkada\u015f, e\u015f… Belli bir s\u00fcre sonra ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, hayata tutundu\u011fumuz yerden ayr\u0131lmam\u0131z gerekiyor. Kopan yaprak bunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 hissetmeyebilir ama insanlar, kalplerindeki bo\u015fluklarla ya\u015famaya devam etmek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bazen bu bo\u015fluklar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp bizi yutmas\u0131ndan o kadar korkar\u0131z ki hayat\u0131 parmak ucunda ya\u015famaya karar veririz. Hi\u00e7 kimsede, hi\u00e7bir yerde iz b\u0131rakmadan; bir kediye, bir a\u011faca dokunmadan… Bir bo\u015fluk daha a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131ndan o kadar korkar\u0131z ki kendimize sonsuz bir bo\u015fluk yarat\u0131r ve buraya hapsoluruz. Hayata dokunmaktan, hayat\u0131n bize dokunmas\u0131ndan korkar\u0131z. Bu y\u00fczden ya\u015famamay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Kendi elimizle kap\u0131y\u0131 kitler ve anahtar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Beni bu bo\u015flu\u011fa hapseden kendime k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m. Bu kadar korkak oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in, \u015fu \u00e2n bo\u015flukta savrulurken tutunabilece\u011fim hi\u00e7bir g\u00fczel an\u0131 biriktirmedi\u011fim i\u00e7in kendime k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m. Hayat\u0131 ya\u015famaya de\u011fer k\u0131lan \u015feylerden uzak durdu\u011fum i\u00e7in k\u0131zg\u0131n\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc e\u011fer tek bir tanesine bile dokunabilseydim, ona t\u00fcm g\u00fcc\u00fcmle sar\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131m. Bir anlam, bir de\u011fer, bir insan, bir bak\u0131\u015f, bir koku… G\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcm\u00fczdeki bo\u015flu\u011fu doldurabilmemiz i\u00e7in tek bir tanesi yeter. Bu y\u00fczden korkmayal\u0131m, sadece bir a\u011fac\u0131n yapra\u011f\u0131 olal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Yazar: Z\u00fcleyha Y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00f6rsel Kaynak: <\/span>https:\/\/pin.it\/1tIjR3u<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bazen bu bo\u015fluklar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp bizi yutmas\u0131ndan o kadar korkar\u0131z ki hayat\u0131 parmak ucunda ya\u015famaya karar veririz. Hi\u00e7 kimsede, hi\u00e7bir yerde iz b\u0131rakmadan; bir kediye, bir a\u011faca dokunmadan… Bir bo\u015fluk daha a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131ndan o kadar korkar\u0131z ki kendimize sonsuz bir bo\u015fluk yarat\u0131r ve buraya hapsoluruz. Hayata dokunmaktan, hayat\u0131n bize dokunmas\u0131ndan korkar\u0131z. Bu y\u00fczden ya\u015famamay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Kendi elimizle kap\u0131y\u0131 kitler ve anahtar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":78,"featured_media":4809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nAidiyet | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/aidiyet\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Aidiyet | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" 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