{"id":3088,"date":"2021-05-06T19:11:55","date_gmt":"2021-05-06T16:11:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=3088"},"modified":"2021-05-06T19:30:37","modified_gmt":"2021-05-06T16:30:37","slug":"friends-karakterlerinin-erken-donem-uyumsuz-semalari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/friends-karakterlerinin-erken-donem-uyumsuz-semalari","title":{"rendered":"Friends Karakterlerinin Erken D\u00f6nem Uyumsuz \u015eemalar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumak yakla\u015f\u0131k 5 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r pop\u00fclerli\u011fini kaybetmemi\u015f olan Friends dizisini mutlaka duymu\u015fsunuzdur. Hatta baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n dizinin t\u00fcm repliklerini ezbere bilecek, sahnelerin \u00e7ekildi\u011fi mekanlar\u0131 tek bak\u0131\u015fta an\u0131msayacak ya da fig\u00fcran oyuncular\u0131n\u0131n isimlerini bile haf\u0131zas\u0131nda tutacak kadar \u00e7ok izledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Tabii, baz\u0131 insanlar da kendi zevklerine uygun bulmam\u0131\u015f olabilirler, olsun. E\u011fer hala izlemedim diyorsan\u0131z da benden s\u00f6ylemesi bu yaz\u0131 epey spoiler i\u00e7ermektedir, buradan sonras\u0131n\u0131 izledikten sonra okuman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Peki izlerken i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p d\u00f6nemin nostaljik ruhunu buram buram hissetti\u011fimiz bu diziyi ve kendi ki\u015filiklerimizi \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz bu karakterleri neden bu kadar \u00e7ok sevdik sizce? Kendimizi onlara bu kadar yak\u0131n hissetmemizi sa\u011flayan ortak \u00f6zelliklerimiz nelerdi? Ben cevap vereyim, her insanda ortak olarak bulunan \u015femalar\u0131m\u0131z. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eemalar, olumlu ya da olumsuz \u00f6zellikte olabilen, ki\u015finin kendisine ya da \u00e7evresine ait yayg\u0131n ve ko\u015fulsuz temalard\u0131r (Rafaeli, Bernstein, & Young, 2020). Erken ya\u015famda filizlenmeye ba\u015flayarak deneyimler, duygular, fiziksel uyar\u0131mlar ve bili\u015flerden olu\u015furlar ve her insan \u00f6mr\u00fc boyunca bu \u015femalar\u0131 fark\u0131nda olarak ya da \u00e7o\u011funlukla fark\u0131nda olmayarak kullan\u0131rlar (Farrel, Reiss, & Shaw, 2018). Ya\u015fam boyunca geli\u015fimi s\u00fcrd\u00fcren \u015femalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n genellikle \u00e7ocuklukta uyumlu rolleri vard\u0131r, \u00f6rne\u011fin istismar edilme durumunda olan bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015fkin yerine kendisinin kusurlu oldu\u011funa inanarak bir nevi hayatta kalma \u00e7abas\u0131 g\u00f6sterir ve bu onun i\u00e7in daha umut verici bir durumdur. Ki\u015filer yeti\u015fkinlikte uyum bozucu olan \u015femalar\u0131n\u0131 her ne kadar muhafaza edip fark etmeseler de bu erken d\u00f6nem uyumsuz \u015femalar\u0131 i\u015flev bozucu \u00f6zellik g\u00f6sterirler ve ki\u015finin t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131 etkileyerek s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olabilirler (Farrel, Reiss, & Shaw, 2018). \u00c7ocukken bir \u015fekilde ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131 engellenen, travmaya maruz kalan, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmede sorun ya\u015fay\u0131p \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz \u015fekilde \u201ciyi olandan fazla alan\u201d ya da yeti\u015fkinlerinin davran\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7selle\u015ftirip \u00f6zde\u015fim kuran bireylerde erken d\u00f6nem uyumsuz \u015femalar\u0131 geli\u015febilir. Yine ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde mizaci yatk\u0131nl\u0131k, zedeleyici aile ortamlar\u0131, ya\u015fam zorluklar\u0131, bozuk ili\u015fkiler, duygusal d\u00fczensizlikler de erken d\u00f6nem uyumsuz \u015femalar\u0131nda rol oynay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r (Rafaeli, Bernstein, & Young, 2020).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben kendi yarg\u0131lar\u0131mla dizi karakterlerine yak\u0131nl\u0131k duyup onlarla \u00f6zde\u015fim kuruyor olu\u015fumuzu \u201csalt maruz kalma teorisiyle\u201d a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yorum. Bu teoriye g\u00f6re k\u0131saca a\u015fina oldu\u011fumuz \u015feylere daha fazla yak\u0131nl\u0131k kurar\u0131z. Friends karakterleri ise her ne kadar farkl\u0131 bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ve d\u00f6nemin \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc olsa da hissettirdikleri duygular ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 deneyimler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan asl\u0131nda ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7ok benzerler. A\u015fina oldu\u011fumuz, tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ortak noktalar\u0131m\u0131z ise i\u015fte tam olarak az \u00f6nce bahsetti\u011fim \u015femalar\u0131m\u0131z. Gelin birlikte hem bu karakterlerin \u015femalar\u0131na bakal\u0131m hem de biraz kendimize \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutal\u0131m!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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 \u0130lk olarak Monica Geller\u2019la ba\u015flayal\u0131m. Monica Ross\u2019\u0131n k\u0131z karde\u015fidir ve a\u015f\u00e7\u0131d\u0131r. Monica ailesi taraf\u0131ndan s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirilip yetersiz g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrken erkek karde\u015fi olan Ross ise ailenin g\u00f6zdesi olarak yeti\u015fir. Monica a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fczeyde titiz, d\u00fczenli ve kontrolc\u00fc biridir. Bu sebeple Monica\u2019da y\u00fcksek standartlar \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n her \u015feyi m\u00fckemmellik seviyesinde yapmak zorunda hisseden zorlant\u0131l\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7e\u015fidini, yetersiz \u00f6zdenetim \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n ve kusurluluk \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n ise a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 telafisini geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. K\u00f6keninde Monica\u2019n\u0131n s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirilen bir ortamda, yetersiz g\u00f6r\u00fclerek ve k\u0131yaslanarak b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi yatmaktad\u0131r. Monica\u2019n\u0131n ergenli\u011finde kilo sorunlar\u0131yla alay konusu olmas\u0131 ise yeme bozukluklar\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini g\u00f6stermektedir. Ayr\u0131ca sahnelerin en \u00e7ok \u00e7ekildi\u011fi yerlerden birisi Monica\u2019n\u0131n dairesidir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc di\u011ferleri genel olarak Monica\u2019n\u0131n evinde toplan\u0131rlar. \u015e\u00fckran yemekleri onun taraf\u0131ndan haz\u0131rlan\u0131r, organizasyonlar onun taraf\u0131ndan ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilir ve kendisi hizmet etmeyi seven bir insan olarak bu durumdan hi\u00e7 \u015fikayet\u00e7i olmaz, aksine bunlar kendisinin de istedi\u011fi \u015feylerdir. Romantik ili\u015fkiler bak\u0131m\u0131ndan bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131 bulamayan Monica\u2019n\u0131n Richard ad\u0131nda bir sevgilisi olmu\u015ftur. Richard babas\u0131n\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131d\u0131r ve kendisinden 20 ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr.  Monica Richard\u2019a \u00e7ok ba\u011flan\u0131r fakat Monica anne olmak istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ve Richard \u00e7ocuk istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar. Richard\u2019\u0131 unutmak onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok zor olmu\u015ftur. Monica\u2019n\u0131n \u00e7ok fazla partner de\u011fi\u015ftirmesi, ilgi ile yetinememesi ve kendisinden ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck birine \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131 ise duygusal yoksunluk \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrt\u00fcyor bana. Sevgi vermeyen ebeveyn taraf\u0131ndan yeti\u015ftirilen Monica, Richard\u2019\u0131 sevgili yerine koyarken asl\u0131nda ailesinden alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilgiyi ve \u015fefkati ondan almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Richard onun i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 zamanda bak\u0131m veren olabilecek kadar bilgi ve deneyime sahip otorite fig\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc and\u0131r\u0131r. Daha sonra Monica ile Chandler bir \u015fekilde birlikte olarak birbirlerine \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olurlar. Birlikteliklerinin kuvvetli s\u00fcrmesinin alt\u0131nda yatan sebeplerini \u00e7ekim teorisine ba\u011flayarak Chandler\u2019la hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n bir bak\u0131ma benzer olmas\u0131na, uzun s\u00fcredir birbirlerini tan\u0131yor olmalar\u0131na ve ki\u015fisel \u00f6zelliklerinin bir \u015fekilde birbirlerini tamaml\u0131yor olmalar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131yorum.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Monica\u2019n\u0131n erkek karde\u015fi olan Ross Geller ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir paleontologtur. Monica ile benzer \u015femalar\u0131 vard\u0131r fakat \u015femalar\u0131 yans\u0131tma \u015fekilleri birbirlerinden farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Ross, ailenin y\u00fcksek standartlara ba\u011fl\u0131 olan ko\u015fullu sevgisiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr ve ailesinin g\u00f6zdesidir fakat daha sonra \u00e7evresinden ayn\u0131 onay\u0131 alamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu sebeple onun y\u00fcksek standartlar \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu ve teslimiyet g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini ayr\u0131ca ayn\u0131 ilgiyi daha sonra kaybetti\u011fi i\u00e7in kusurluluk \u015femas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131t sald\u0131r\u0131 geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Ba\u015far\u0131 odakl\u0131, stat\u00fc y\u00f6nelimli olan Ross genellikle kendisine pek ilgi g\u00f6stermeyen partnerle \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olur. Rachel\u2019a liseden beri a\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen uzun s\u00fcre a\u00e7\u0131lamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve dengesiz bir ili\u015fkileri vard\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 zamanda 3 kez bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, ilk e\u015fi olan Carol e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klayarak onu terk etti\u011fi i\u00e7in sonradan geli\u015fen terk edilme \u015femas\u0131 vard\u0131r ve bu hayat\u0131n\u0131 bask\u0131n \u015fekilde etkiler. Ayr\u0131ca zay\u0131f s\u0131n\u0131rlarla, \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k yeti\u015fti\u011fi i\u00e7in hakl\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131 geli\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Dizide girdi\u011fi ate\u015fli tart\u0131\u015fmalar, kendi fikirlerini \u0131srarla savunmas\u0131 ve di\u011ferlerine dikte etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, di\u011ferleri onun istediklerini vermeyince \u00f6fke ya\u015famas\u0131 ve diretmesi ise bu \u015femay\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na \u00f6rnek g\u00f6sterilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Chandler Bing karakteri ise Joey ile birlikte ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fayan, d\u00fczg\u00fcn bir geliri olan, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 esprili bir karakterdir. Hemen hemen her konuda espri \u00fcretebilen Chandler, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 travmalar\u0131 da mizah\u0131 bir savunma mekanizmas\u0131 olarak kullanarak a\u00e7\u0131klar. Chandler\u2019da terk edilme \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131nma t\u00fcr\u00fc oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Kad\u0131nlarla fl\u00f6rt etme s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015far ve ciddi ili\u015fkilerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bunun sebebini dizide kendisi de a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir. \u201cMr. & Mrs. Bing k\u00f6t\u00fc bir evliliktir.\u201d Babas\u0131 o \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken bir \u015e\u00fckran g\u00fcn\u00fc yeme\u011finde e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klayarak annesinden ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu durum onda travma etkisi yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve bu travma babas\u0131yla ili\u015fkilidir. Bu sebeple Chandler yeti\u015fkinli\u011finde babas\u0131ndan uzak durmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklu\u011funda dalga ge\u00e7ilmek, alay konusu olacak bir \u00f6zelli\u011finin olmas\u0131 ise (Chandler is a girl) ise sosyal izolasyon \u015femas\u0131n\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kartm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015eeman\u0131n a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 telafisini g\u00f6steren Chandler bu sebeple sosyal ortamlarda gergindir ve \u201conay\u201d sebepli \u015fakalar yapar. Daha sonradan birbirlerine \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olup birlikte olan Monica ve Chandler \u00e7iftinde her iki taraf da aile kurmaya y\u00f6nelik planlar yapar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rachel Green dizinin ilk b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 Barry\u2019i d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde terk edip eski arkada\u015f\u0131 Monica\u2019n\u0131n yan\u0131na ka\u00e7ar, b\u00f6ylelikle bu arkada\u015f grubunun hayatlar\u0131na kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olur. Zengin bir aileden gelir, bu sebeple \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftir. Ancak daha sonra arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n destekleriyle ekonomik ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 eline almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r; \u00f6nce garsonluk yapar, sonra moda sekt\u00f6r\u00fcne kat\u0131l\u0131r. Monica ve Ross ile \u00e7ok eskiden tan\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen Rachel, Ross\u2019\u0131n ona olan hislerini uzun s\u00fcre fark etmemi\u015ftir. S\u00fcrekli ayr\u0131l\u0131p tekrar birle\u015fmeli karma\u015f\u0131k bir ili\u015fkileri olu\u015fur. Ara ara ba\u015fka insanlarla birlikte olsalar da tekrar bir araya gelip bir sebepten ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar. Vegas\u2019a gittiklerinde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sarho\u015f olup evlenirler ve durumu fark ettikten bir s\u00fcre sonra bo\u015fan\u0131rlar. Beraberliklerinden Emma ad\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya gelir ve bebek i\u00e7in birlikte ya\u015famaya ba\u015flarlar fakat romantik ili\u015fkileri bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te devam etmez. Joey k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine Rachel\u2019a \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olmu\u015ftur, hatta Joey dizide sadece Rachel\u2019a \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olmu\u015ftur. Bu durum, olaylar\u0131 biraz daha karma\u015f\u0131kla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkilerindeki tutars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6keninde Rachel\u2019da da Ross\u2019a benzer \u015fekilde ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Ayr\u0131ca Rachel\u2019\u0131n \u00e7ocukken her istedi\u011finin yap\u0131lmas\u0131 ve \u201cprenses\u201d gibi yeti\u015fmesi onda hakl\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131n\u0131 da geli\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. Rachel\u2019da g\u00f6zlemledi\u011fim hakl\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k hakl\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Rachel talepkar, kontrolc\u00fc ve kendi do\u011frular\u0131 olan birisidir. Ancak daha sonra de\u011fi\u015fen ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131 Rachel\u2019\u0131 zorlar ve ki\u015filik geli\u015fimine \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fck eder. En \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fim ge\u00e7iren karakterlerden birisi Rachel Green\u2019dir. Onun yeni zorluklara girme iste\u011fi, kimsenin yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmemesi gibi \u00f6zelliklerin ise yine ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131nma ve telafi t\u00fcrlerine i\u015faret etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Joey Tribiani yedi tane k\u0131z karde\u015fi olan ve kalabal\u0131k bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcyen tek erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fudur. Hayalperest, saf, masum bir karakterdir. Zaman zaman ini\u015fli \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olan kariyerinde maddi a\u00e7\u0131dan zorlansa da mesle\u011fi olan akt\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc hi\u00e7 b\u0131rakmaz. Yemek yemeye a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn karakter cebinde s\u00fcrekli \u00e7atalla gezer ve yeme\u011fini payla\u015fmaktan nefret eder. \u0130li\u015fkileri \u00e7ok k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli hatta tek gecelik ili\u015fkilerdir. Yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131n ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermemesinin sebebinin duygusal yoksunluk \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131nmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Kalabal\u0131k bir aileden geldi\u011fi i\u00e7in ebeveynlerinin daha az ilgi g\u00f6stermesi bu \u015feman\u0131n geli\u015fiminde rol oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ailesinden yeterince ilgi alamayan Joey arkada\u015f grubuna a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fcr ve onlara fazlas\u0131yla de\u011fer veren hassas bir ki\u015filiktir. Di\u011fer karakterlere g\u00f6re daha \u00e7ocuksu ve di\u011ferlerine muhta\u00e7 g\u00f6z\u00fckmektedir. Birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ev arkada\u015f\u0131 olan Chandler maddi a\u00e7\u0131dan Joey\u2019i kollar.  Arkada\u015f grubuna a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6steren Joey\u2019nin \u00e7ocuksu ve hassas ki\u015fili\u011fi bana geli\u015fmemi\u015f benlik ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k \u015femas\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrt\u00fcyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Kendi favorimi sona saklad\u0131m. \ud83d\ude42 Phoebe Buffay dizideki en s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131 karakter olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Psi\u015fik g\u00fc\u00e7lere ve garip inan\u00e7lara sahip olan Phoebe karakterinde ara ara grandiy\u00f6zite davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlenir. Olduk\u00e7a \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 biridir. Arkada\u015flar\u0131 onun farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131na ve hayal d\u00fcnyas\u0131na uyum sa\u011flar. Son derece iyi kalpli, hassas d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli biri olan Phoebe, hayvan haklar\u0131 savunucusu ve vegand\u0131r. Babas\u0131 annesini terk ettikten sonra annesiyle ya\u015far. K\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra annesi intihar eder ve Phoebe sokaklarda ya\u015famaya ba\u015flar. Kendi kendine sokakta kollektif bilin\u00e7le ya\u015f\u0131yor olmas\u0131 ve onun sokaktaki grup dinami\u011fi ile birlikte hayatta kalma m\u00fccadelesi onda kendini feda \u015femas\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirir. Hayvan haklar\u0131 savuncusu olmas\u0131, etik durumlara dikkat etmesi, sonradan tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 erkek karde\u015fi i\u00e7in ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131 anneli\u011fi kabul etmesi ya da insanlardan bir beklentisinin olmamas\u0131, iyilik kabul etmemesi bu \u015feman\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131d\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca kendisi fark\u0131nda olmasa da annesinin ve babas\u0131n\u0131n terk etti\u011fi \u00e7ocuk olmak onda terk edilme \u015femas\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirir. Genellikle s\u00fcrd\u00fcremeyece\u011fi ili\u015fkiler se\u00e7er. Daha \u00f6nceden \u00e2\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fu gay arkada\u015f\u0131yla evlenmi\u015f, askeriyeden biriyle uzaktan ili\u015fki ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    Sonlara do\u011fru yakla\u015f\u0131rken belirtmeliyim ki bu konuda bir uzman de\u011filim ve bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 sahip oldu\u011fum bilgiler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ki\u015fisel g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerimi kullanarak aktarmak istedim. Bu sebeple aktar\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131n mutlak do\u011fruluk i\u00e7ermedi\u011fini belirtmek isterim. Benim i\u00e7in anlatmak keyifliydi, dilerim sizler i\u00e7in de okumak keyifli olmu\u015ftur! Son olarak bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 dizinin efsanevi introsunun s\u00f6zleriyle bitirmek istiyorum. \u201cSo no one told you life was gonna be this way \/ Your jobs a joke, you\u2019re broke, your love life\u2019s DOA. \/ It\u2019s like you\u2019re always stuck in second gear \/ And when it hasn\u2019t been your day, your week, your month or even your year but.. \/ I\u2019ll be there for you!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Yazar: S\u0131la Arslan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kaynak\u00e7a<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

    Farrel, J. M., Reiss, N., & Shaw, \u0130. A. (2018). \u015eema Terapi Klinisyenin Rehberi<\/em> (3 b.). (S. G. Alkan, & E. Alkan, \u00c7ev.) \u0130stanbul: Psikonet Yay\u0131nlar\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Rafaeli, E., Bernstein, D. P., & Young, J. E. (2020). \u015eema Terapi Ay\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 \u00d6zellikler<\/em> (10 b.). \u0130stanbul: Psikonet Yay\u0131nlar\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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