{"id":1852,"date":"2020-04-19T13:06:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T10:06:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=1852"},"modified":"2020-04-19T13:06:32","modified_gmt":"2020-04-19T10:06:32","slug":"ayaklar-bas-olunca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/ayaklar-bas-olunca","title":{"rendered":"AYAKLAR BA\u015e OLUNCA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hepimizin \u00e7evresinde hasbelkader iyi yerlere gelen insanlar vard\u0131r; geldi\u011fi yeri duydu\u011fumuzda, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z. Bu liyakatsiz insanlar kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na bir yere gelemeyeceklerinin ve herhangi bir i\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131 elde edemeyeceklerinin bilincindedirler. B\u00f6yle insanlar\u0131n Aytmatov\u2019un da dedi\u011fi gibi, \u201ckendisini kollay\u0131p kay\u0131ran dost ya da n\u00fcfuzlu akrabalar\u0131 olmay\u0131nca i\u015finde ilerlemesi, iyi bir yere gelmesi pek zordur.\u201d Bu noktada ki\u015filikleri menfaat \u00fczerine o kadar odaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki dostluklar\u0131n\u0131 menfaat \u00fczerine in\u015fa edip, menfaatleri bitince dostluklar\u0131n\u0131 kolayl\u0131kla y\u0131kabilirler. Peki bu insanlar hasbelkader mi iyi yerlere geldi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birisi emek g\u00f6stermedi\u011fi bir yerde s\u00f6z hakk\u0131na sahip oldu\u011funda kendine benzer ba\u015fka bir liyakatsiz insana geli\u015fim alan\u0131 a\u00e7ar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc neden a\u00e7mas\u0131n? Her ku\u015f kendi t\u00fcr\u00fc ile u\u00e7ar. Onlar vizyonu kendisine ilham olacak, deneyimlerinden yararlanabilecekleri, potansiyel sahibi birini aram\u0131yorlar. Bunlar\u0131 ar\u0131yor olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in kendi t\u00fcr\u00fc yerine, farkl\u0131 t\u00fcrlerle u\u00e7may\u0131 bilmeleri gerek. \u00dcnl\u00fc filozof Voltaire\u2019in s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi \u201cPek az insan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n deneyimlerinden yararlanmay\u0131 bilecek kadar ak\u0131ll\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d Ne yaz\u0131k ki bizler ayn\u0131 y\u00f6ne u\u00e7makta olan bir s\u00fcr\u00fc ile ayn\u0131 havay\u0131 solumak zorunday\u0131z. Bazen sizlerin saatlerce, g\u00fcnlerce \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p emek verdi\u011finiz ve en sonunda hak etti\u011finiz o \u015fey i\u00e7in, \u00e7ok da kafa patlatmayan biri perdenin arkas\u0131ndan hakk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 talep etmekle de kalmay\u0131p bizzat hakk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sizden alabilir. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrde adaletle i\u015fledi\u011fi bu oyunu \u00f6yle g\u00fczel oynar ki perde kapan\u0131rken seyirciden b\u00fcy\u00fck bir alk\u0131\u015f\u0131 da hak eder. Kabul edelim ki ger\u00e7ekten bir alk\u0131\u015f\u0131 hak ediyor ama bu alk\u0131\u015f\u0131, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 galibiyetle de\u011fil, y\u00fcksek performans oyunculu\u011fuyla hak ediyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kim olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hepimizden \u00e7ok kendileri bilse de onlar bulunduklar\u0131 mevki ile ki\u015filiklerini \u00f6ylesine \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015ftirirler ki e\u011fer mevkileri olur da ellerinden kayarsa kendilerinin de bir hi\u00e7 olacaklar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131ndad\u0131rlar. Bu y\u00fczdendir ki bunlar bulunduklar\u0131 koltu\u011fu s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131 kavray\u0131p o koltu\u011fu b\u0131rakmamak i\u00e7in makyavelist ki\u015filiklerini ortaya koyarlar. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131 \u015feyin ahlaki boyutunun onlar i\u00e7in bir \u00f6nemi yoktur ne de olsa amaca giden her yol mubaht\u0131r. Bu insanlar\u0131n adalet kavram\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r, hak edenlerin yerini kolayl\u0131kla al\u0131rlar. Birisi bulunduklar\u0131 yerle ilgili haklar\u0131n\u0131 sorgulad\u0131klar\u0131nda \u015fah\u0131slar\u0131na yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir t\u00fcr hakaret olarak kabul edip geldikleri yer i\u00e7in, bulunduklar\u0131 mevki i\u00e7in ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131ndan ve hak edip bu ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 elde ettiklerinden bahsederler. Unuttuklar\u0131 bir \u015fey var ki \u201cAsl\u0131nda insan yalan s\u00f6yleyerek sadece kendini kand\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yalan iki veya \u00fc\u00e7 ki\u015filik de\u011fil, bir ki\u015filiktir. Kaybedilen ise sadece ki\u015filiktir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 her zaman dik bir duru\u015funuz olsun. Dostlu\u011funu menfaat \u00fczerine kurmu\u015f olan insanlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 fazlal\u0131kt\u0131r ve bu fazlal\u0131\u011f\u0131 eksiltmekten \u00e7ekinmeyin. Liyakatsizlikleri ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bu insanlar k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ala\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. Bu insanlar i\u00e7in beceriksizli\u011fin ve ihanet kavram\u0131n\u0131n tan\u0131m\u0131 farkl\u0131d\u0131r o y\u00fczden kulaklar\u0131na T\u00fcrke\u015f\u2019in: \u201cBeceriksizlikle ihanet aras\u0131nda k\u0131ldan ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r. Beceremedi\u011fi halde makam-mevki i\u015fgal etmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck ihanettir.\u201d s\u00f6zlerini f\u0131s\u0131lday\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Gizem Erdo\u011fan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hepimizin \u00e7evresinde hasbelkader iyi yerlere gelen insanlar vard\u0131r; geldi\u011fi yeri duydu\u011fumuzda, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z. 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