{"id":1513,"date":"2017-11-16T08:09:59","date_gmt":"2017-11-16T05:09:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=1513"},"modified":"2020-06-19T21:25:54","modified_gmt":"2020-06-19T18:25:54","slug":"yasayan-blog-cinsel-yonelimi-nedeniyle-zorbaliga-ugrayan-birey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yasayan-blog-cinsel-yonelimi-nedeniyle-zorbaliga-ugrayan-birey","title":{"rendered":"Ya\u015fayan Blog: Cinsel Y\u00f6nelimi Nedeniyle Zorbal\u0131\u011fa U\u011frayan Birey"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Bize biraz kendinden bahseder misin?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Yakla\u015f\u0131k 3-4 ya\u015f\u0131mdan beri kim oldu\u011fumu \u00e7ok iyi biliyorum. Hatta <\/span>3-4<\/span> -o- ya\u015f<\/span>\u0131n<\/span>-lar-dayken s\u00fcrekli kendi kendime bende farkl\u0131 bir \u015feyin oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ama bunun ne oldu\u011funu bilmiyordum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o ya\u015fta bunu idrak edecek d\u00fczeyde de\u011fildim. Biraz daha b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp okula ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda daha da dikkatimi \u00e7eken ve kendime s\u0131k s\u0131k hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir durum oldu. Ne konuda farkl\u0131 oldu\u011fumu bilmiyordum ama insanlarla daha s\u0131k ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7meye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00f6nemde s\u00fcrekli \u201cYa bilirlerse, \u00f6\u011frenirlerse?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm. \u0130lkokul 4. s\u0131n\u0131fa <\/span>geldi\u011fimde<\/span> -ge\u00e7ti\u011fimde- derslerim, insanlarla ileti\u015fimim \u00e7ok iyi oldu\u011fu halde yava\u015f yava\u015f zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011framaya ba\u015flad\u0131m alay kelimeleriyle. Mesela beden <\/span>-e\u011fitimi-<\/span> dersinde \u00e7ok zorlan\u0131rd\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131zlar <\/span>hep<\/span> voleybol erkekler de futbol oynard\u0131 fakat ben futbol oynamak istemezdim. Hocalar\u0131m da beni buna zorlard\u0131, s\u00fcrt\u00fc\u015fmeler ya\u015fard\u0131k. Ortaokula ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda d\u0131\u015flanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Kimse benimle ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7miyordu, halimi sormuyordu. Ben yanlar\u0131na gitti\u011fimde ise gitmemi, uzakla\u015fmam\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlard\u0131 fakat nedenini bilmiyordum ve bu beni \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcyordu. Fakat as\u0131l fiziksel ve psikolojik zorbal\u0131k okul b\u00fcnyesinde verilen hafta sonu kursunda ba\u015flad\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131mdaki insanlar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmden beri beni, ailemi tan\u0131yordu. Ancak di\u011fer s\u0131n\u0131ftaki insanlar seni tan\u0131m\u0131yorlar, seninle bir ileti\u015fimleri yok ve bu nedenle \u00e7ok ac\u0131mas\u0131z olabiliyorlar. Bu s\u0131ralarda bir g\u00fcn zorla birka\u00e7 ki\u015fi beni tutarak k\u0131zlar tuvaletine soktu, nedenini idrak edemedim <\/span>neden bu insanlar bunu yap\u0131yor diye<\/span>. Bu olay\u0131n ard\u0131ndan bu durumla dalga ge\u00e7ilmeye ba\u015fland\u0131, \u00f6\u011fretmenim bir noktadan sonra herkesi susturdu ancak bana destek verecek ya da di\u011ferlerini uyaracak herhangi bir telkinde bulunmad\u0131. Bu noktadan sonra devaml\u0131 olarak e\u015fcinsel bireylere s\u00f6ylenen \u201cibne, top, k\u0131z\u201d gibi lakaplara maruz b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131m. Okul y\u0131llar\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde tuvalete gitmeme gibi bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k edindim \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc tuvalete <\/span>kitlenirdim<\/span>-kilitlenirdim-, tuvalette beni korkutup \u00fcrk\u00fctmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p hakaret ederlerdi. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 devam ederken art\u0131k \u00f6yle bir boyuta ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ki insanlar sanki ben bir m\u00fczeymi\u015fim gibi beni g\u00f6rmeye s\u0131n\u0131fa gelirlerdi. Ben de o ya\u015fta kendime \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmu\u015ftum; beni rahat b\u0131raks\u0131nlar diye har\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 onlara veriyordum. Bunlar\u0131n hepsi olurken <\/span>aile boyutunda<\/span> ben her \u015feyi aileme anlat\u0131yordum zaten mutsuz bir \u00e7ocuk oldu\u011fum \u00e7ok belli de oluyordu. Okula giderken her g\u00fcn \u201cbug\u00fcn ba\u015f\u0131ma ne gelecek\u201d korkusuyla gidiyordum. <\/span>Beni en \u00e7ok inciten olaylardan biri de Facebook \u00fczerinden at\u0131lan bir mesajla edilen hakaretler ve en sonunda da \u201cGeber, in\u015fallah \u00f6l\u00fcrs\u00fcn, kendini \u00f6ld\u00fcr.\u201d gibi ifadeler.<\/span>(Buray\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremedim ama c\u00fcmle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck geldi.) Ortaokulun son senesine <\/span>geldi\u011fimde<\/span>-ge\u00e7ti\u011fimde- normal okul ya\u015fant\u0131ma ve okul kursuna devam ederken derslerim iyi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin g\u00f6zdesi bir \u00f6\u011frenciydim ve az \u00e7ok koruyorlard\u0131 beni ancak okul kursunu bu zorbal\u0131klar sebebiyle b\u0131rakmam\u0131n ard\u0131ndan o koruma hali de kayboldu. Tabii ben b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ra\u011fmen susan, pasif kalan bir \u00e7ocuk de\u011fildim. Gerekli yerlere \u015fikayet ediyordum, ailemle payla\u015f\u0131yordum ama bunlar\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m yan\u0131t \u201cNeden bunlar hep sana oluyor, sende ne var?\u201d sorusu oluyordu. Bir s\u00fcre sonra bundan utanmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorsun. Bu sorular sorulmaya ba\u015flay\u0131nca geri \u00e7ekiliyorsun. 12-13 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocuk olarak bir s\u00fcr\u00fc insanla m\u00fccadele etmek durumunda kald\u0131m. O d\u00f6nemde \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin deste\u011fini kaybettim, aileme bir a\u00e7\u0131klama getiremedi\u011fim i\u00e7in o kart\u0131 da kaybettim. Her \u015feyi i\u00e7ime at\u0131yordum, yaln\u0131z kalam\u0131yordum. Bu olaylar olurken bir g\u00fcn 10-15 tane ila\u00e7 yuttum, bay\u0131ld\u0131m ancak bir \u015fey olmad\u0131. O ak\u015fam aileme psikolojik yard\u0131m almak istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim. \u0130lk gitti\u011fim psikiyatristle pek iyi deneyimim olmad\u0131, bana hakaretler etti. O nedenle ba\u015fka bir psikiyatristle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ailem intihar etti\u011fimi \u00f6\u011frendi. Depresyon tan\u0131s\u0131 kondu, antidepresan kullanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Bu s\u0131rada liseye haz\u0131rlanmam gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7in bir dershaneyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye gittik. Dershane m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc, anneme \u201cBiz \u00f6\u011frenciyi al\u0131r\u0131z ama di\u011fer \u00f6\u011frencilere zarar vermesinden korkuyoruz\u201d dedi. Bu dershanede de pek uyum sa\u011flayamad\u0131m ve zorbal\u0131klara u\u011frad\u0131m ancak o d\u00f6nemde umursamamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftim yava\u015f yava\u015f. O d\u00f6nemlerde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m <\/span>ba\u015fka bir akl\u0131mda kalan<\/span> -akl\u0131mda kalan ba\u015fka bir- olayda s\u0131n\u0131fta bir cam k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve idari kadro s\u0131n\u0131fa geldi\u011finde ilk bakt\u0131klar\u0131 cam de\u011fil bendim. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Ard\u0131ndan lise d\u00f6nemi ba\u015flad\u0131 ama lise d\u00f6neminde daha sessiz sakin etliye s\u00fctl\u00fcye kar\u0131\u015fmayan bir \u00e7ocuk oldum. Liseye ba\u015flar ba\u015flamaz rehberlik servisiyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm, yard\u0131m almak istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim. Beden e\u011fitim dersi \u00f6\u011fretmeniyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerini ve beni istemedi\u011fim \u015feyleri yapmaya mecbur b\u0131rakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamas\u0131n\u0131 rica ettim. Bana \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldular. Bu dan\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecinde her bir seanstan sonra anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m olaylar beni sarst\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in tuvalete gider elimi y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc y\u0131kard\u0131m, bu \u00fcst s\u0131n\u0131flar\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekmi\u015f ve bir dedikodu \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131lar orada insanlarla cinsel ili\u015fkiye girdi\u011fime dair. Onlar\u0131n oldu\u011fu kata \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda hepsi toplanm\u0131\u015f birini ar\u0131yorlard\u0131, beni i\u015faret ettiler ve bir g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc koptu. N\u00f6bet\u00e7i hoca beni oradan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Bunun ard\u0131ndan s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131m\u0131 bast\u0131lar \u201cBurada bir e\u015fcinsel varm\u0131\u015f.\u201d diye ancak ismimi bildikleri i\u00e7in s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131m beni korudu ve orada oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6ylemediler. B\u00f6ylelikle ciddi bir fiziksel zarar g\u00f6rmekten kurtuldum. Hakaretler, alaylar, d\u0131\u015flanma devam etti. Lisenin son senelerinde okulumu de\u011fi\u015ftirdim ve problemler kesildi. Eskiden bunlar\u0131 anlatmak beni \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcyordu ama \u015fimdi anlat\u0131rken b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 a\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m, m\u00fccadeleden galip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc hissediyorum.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Bu d\u00f6nemde hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m olaylardan biri \u015fu. Lisedeyken s\u00fcrekli yaz\u0131 yazard\u0131m ve bir hayalim vard\u0131. Bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 kalabal\u0131kta \u00f6nce belki s\u0131n\u0131fta daha sonra da milyonlara anlatma hayali. Bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131fta anlatt\u0131m, \u00e7ok etkilendi insanlar ve hayalimi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdim. O g\u00fcn benim i\u00e7in d\u00f6nem noktalar\u0131mdan biriydi. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Daha sonra aktivizmle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, arkada\u015flar\u0131ma, aileme a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131m. Bu d\u00f6nemde say\u0131sal \u00f6\u011frencisi olmama ra\u011fmen sosyal bilimler alan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya karar verdim. Psikoloji okuyup toplumsal cinsiyet alan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya y\u00f6neldim. \u015eu anda gelece\u011fe dair bir\u00e7ok plan\u0131m var, kariyerim \u00fczerine odakland\u0131m. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6nemine \u00e7ok inan\u0131yorum ve iyili\u011fin her zaman k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yenece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Ben ve ailem b\u00f6yle bir s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7tik. Ben lanetli bir \u00e7ocuktum onlar da lanetli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ailesiydi. O y\u00fczden \u015fimdi ma\u011fdur oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. 11-12 ya\u015flar\u0131nda \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r \u015feyler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in \u015fimdi di\u011fer insanlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak istiyorum. Kad\u0131nlar, LGBT\u0130+ bireyler, m\u00fclteciler, fiziksel olarak marjinalize edilen bireyler bir\u00e7ok konuda ma\u011fdur oluyorlar ve ben onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaya, destek vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n bana katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fey bu oldu. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 kendileri oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in yarg\u0131lamamay\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi \u00f6\u011frendim. <\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. Hangi \u00f6nemli olay bug\u00fcnk\u00fc sen olmana yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu?<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Asl\u0131nda az \u00f6nce anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m her \u015fey bunun cevab\u0131 olabilir ama toparlamak gerekirse b\u00fct\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm zorbal\u0131k \u015fiddet beni bug\u00fcnk\u00fc ben yapt\u0131. Belki zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011framasayd\u0131m \u015fiddetin k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu bilmeyecektim. Bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m sayesinde zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fiddetin ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlar\u0131 kendileri oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in yarg\u0131laman\u0131n ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim. <\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. Burada yer almandaki motivasyonun nedir?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Benim ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 ba\u015fka birilerinin de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. \u015eu an bir yerde hala ya\u015f\u0131yor olanlar da vard\u0131r. Benim en b\u00fcy\u00fck ama\u00e7lar\u0131m ve hayallerimden biri bu konuda fark\u0131ndal\u0131k yaratmak. Bunlar\u0131 ya\u015fayan insanlar var. Bu insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olarak onlar\u0131n bunu zarars\u0131z ya da olabilecek en az tahribatla <\/span>bunu<\/span> atlatmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak. <\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. Geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayat\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015ftirmek istedi\u011fin bir \u015fey var m\u0131? Varsa nedir ve neden?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Hi\u00e7 yok. Olmamas\u0131n\u0131n sebebi ise ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m olmasayd\u0131 belki de \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 bir noktada olacakt\u0131m. Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda \u00e7ok zor \u015feyler ya\u015fad\u0131m ama hepsini atlatt\u0131m ve kendimi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc hissediyorum. Bu y\u00fczden hi\u00e7 ke\u015fkem yok, iyi ki diyorum. <\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. \u015eu an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayat seni tatmin ediyor mu? Ve bunu ne sa\u011fl\u0131yor?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Tatmin ediyor. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hayattan \u00e7ok memnunum. \u00c7evremdeki insanlar o kadar g\u00fczel geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f veriyorlar ki. \u00d6zellikle a\u00e7\u0131lma d\u00f6neminden sonra \u00e7evremdeki insanlar \u00e7ok g\u00fczel tepkiler verdi ve hatta onlar da bu konuda birer aktivist durumuna geldiler. \u00d6zellikle aile konusunda \u00e7ok \u015fansl\u0131 oldu\u011fumu hissediyorum. Benim arkamda olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hep belli ettiler, bu \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

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            1. Hayat\u0131n\u0131n zor taraflar\u0131 neler? Zor yapan fakt\u00f6rler neler? Bunlar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden nas\u0131l geliyorsun?<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Zor taraflar\u0131 var. Homofobik, transfobik, bifobik s\u00f6ylemler, cinsiyet ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatta bir insan\u0131n kendisi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan t\u00fcm olumsuz eylemler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ok rahats\u0131z oluyorum ve bunlar olduk\u00e7a hep ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fcp hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum ve \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorum ama bu ard\u0131ndan kendini \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir duyguya b\u0131rak\u0131yor. Kendi kendime evet bunlar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131n ama atlatt\u0131n \u015fimdi s\u0131ra di\u011fer insanlara yard\u0131m etmekte diyorum. Asl\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey iyi bir \u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/p>\n

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              1. Problemlerinle nas\u0131l y\u00fczle\u015ftin ve bu nas\u0131l bir deneyimdi?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Bu<\/span>-nun-<\/span> asl\u0131nda benim problemim oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorum. Bu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n problemi ancak ben bundan olumsuz etkilenen taraf oldum. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                1. Toplumun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu hissediyor musun?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Evet \u015fu an hissediyorum ama zorbal\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00f6nem<\/span>in<\/span>de b\u00f6yle hissetmiyordum. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                  1. Sana zorbal\u0131k yapan ki\u015fiyle daha sonra y\u00fczle\u015ftin mi ya da y\u00fczle\u015fmek ister misin ve ona ne s\u00f6ylemek isterdin?<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Hay\u0131r hi\u00e7biriyle hi\u00e7 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmad\u0131m ancak duydu\u011fum kadar\u0131yla pek de i\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131c\u0131 hayatlar ya\u015fam\u0131yorlar. K\u00f6t\u00fc hayat \u015fartlar\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duyuyorum ama bunlar\u0131 duymak beni mutlu etmiyor. K\u00f6t\u00fc \u015feyler yapt\u0131lar ve karma en sonunda onlar\u0131 da buldu diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Bir \u015fekilde evrenden kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131lar.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                    1. U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zorbal\u0131klar kendinden so\u011fumana neden oldu mu? Olduysa nede ?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131m zorbal\u0131klar zorbal\u0131k yap\u0131l\u0131rken neden sorusunu kendime her sordu\u011fumda kendimden so\u011fumama sebep oldu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunu ben de s\u00fcrekli sorgulad\u0131m, ailem ve \u00e7evrem de sorgulad\u0131. O d\u00f6nemde k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettim ancak yine bu, yerini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir hisse b\u0131rakt\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmazken bunlara maruz kald\u0131m. Yanl\u0131\u015f olan ben de\u011fildim, onlard\u0131. O nedenle bu so\u011fuma d\u00f6nemsel bir so\u011fumayd\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                      1. Zorbal\u0131k kelimesini bir c\u00fcmleyle ifade edecek olsan bu ne olurdu?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 genel olarak tan\u0131mlamam gerekirse zorbal\u0131k ben senin bedeninde olsayd\u0131m kendimi \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc hissederdim \u00e7ok mutsuz olurdum diyen birinin sana sen nas\u0131l mutlu olursun nas\u0131l bununla ba\u015f edersin nas\u0131l kendinle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olursun demesi gibi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                        1. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zorbal\u0131klar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ailen, arkada\u015flar\u0131n sana yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldular m\u0131?<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          Ailem yan\u0131mdayd\u0131 ancak ailemin beni zorlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 nokta s\u00fcrekli neden diye sorgulamas\u0131yd\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendim bile neden sorusuna cevap veremezken onlar\u0131n da devaml\u0131 bunu sorgulamas\u0131 beni y\u0131prat\u0131yordu. \u00a0Arkada\u015flar\u0131mdan hi\u00e7bir destek g\u00f6rmedim, sadece zorbal\u0131k yap\u0131ld\u0131ktan sonra \u201cTakma ya, Bo\u015f ver.\u201d gibi \u015feyler s\u00f6ylerlerdi ancak zorbal\u0131k yap\u0131l\u0131rken m\u00fcdahale etmezlerdi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc zorbal\u0131k yap\u0131l\u0131rken m\u00fcdahale ederlerse kendilerinin de zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011frama ihtimalinden \u00e7ekiniyorlard\u0131. Zorbal\u0131ktan sonra teselli etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131 ancak bence bu bir destek de\u011fildi. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                          1. Hala zorbal\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musun? G\u00f6r\u00fcyorsan fiziksel ve ruhsal nas\u0131l bir geri bildirim veriyorsun?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Ortaokul d\u00f6neminden lise d\u00f6nemine yakla\u015f\u0131k 4 y\u0131l kadar d\u00fczenli olarak zorbal\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ancak son 3-4 y\u0131ld\u0131r zorbal\u0131k g\u00f6rmedim. Arada alaylar, hakaretler oluyor ancak art\u0131k bunlar\u0131 umursam\u0131yorum. \u0130stedi\u011fimi yap\u0131yorum, istedi\u011fimi giyiyorum, istedi\u011fim gibi ya\u015f\u0131yorum. Ancak art\u0131k ben bunlardan fiziksel ya da ruhsal olarak etkilenmesem de etkilenen insanlar oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fim i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir \u015feye \u015fahit oldu\u011fumda m\u00fcdahale etme ihtiyac\u0131 hissediyorum. Onlara a\u00e7\u0131klamaya, kendilerini sorgulamaya, kendileriyle y\u00fczle\u015fmeye te\u015fvik ediyorum. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                            1. Bu deneyimi ya\u015fayan sen de\u011fil de ba\u015fkas\u0131 olsa ona ne sormak ya da s\u00f6ylemek istersin?<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              Ona g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerdim. Bir de fiziksel ve ruhsal olarak ne durumda \u00f6l\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Nas\u0131l ba\u015f etti\u011fini, nas\u0131l atlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Bir de \u015funu sorard\u0131m. Hi\u00e7 homofobik bir insan\u0131n bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini de\u011fi\u015ftirebilmi\u015f mi? Mesela benim akl\u0131ma bir arkada\u015f\u0131m geldi. Dindar bir insand\u0131 ve bunun \u00f6\u011fretilerine g\u00f6re LGBT\u0130+ bir birey olmak yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015feydi. \u015eu an \u00fcniversitede ve LGBT\u0130+ haklar\u0131n\u0131 savunan bir insan oldu benimle vakit ge\u00e7ire ge\u00e7ire. Onun de\u011fi\u015fimi g\u00f6zlemlemek ho\u015fuma gidiyor. <\/span><\/p>\n

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                              1. Eklemek istedi\u011fin bir \u015fey var m\u0131?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                LGBT\u0130+ bireylerine ve ailelerine bir \u015feyler s\u00f6yleyebilirim. E\u011fer LGBT\u0130+ bireyseniz ve zorbal\u0131\u011fa u\u011fruyorsan\u0131z; g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olun hepsi ge\u00e7ecek ve ileride \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, duygulu, rengarenk biri olacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Ailelerine ise \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yanlar\u0131nda olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ok renkli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve on-<\/span>un-<\/span>la gurur duymalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilirim. <\/span><\/p>\n

                                Haz\u0131rlayan: Ezgi AKTU\u011e<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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