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Son model telefonlar, sosyal medyadan yap\u0131lan say\u0131s\u0131z payla\u015f\u0131mlar, bitmek bilmeyen \u201cben de bu hayatta var\u0131m\u201d i\u00e7erikli mesajlar… Peki asl\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekten var m\u0131y\u0131z? Yoksa giderek tek tip insanlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp bu hayattan asl\u0131nda siliniyor muyuz?<\/span><\/p>\n

Elinde a\u00e7\u0131p bir kez okumayaca\u011f\u0131n, s\u0131rf okumu\u015f g\u00f6z\u00fckmek, insanlara kendini dolu tan\u0131tmak i\u00e7in ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n o kitap… Foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekip payla\u015f\u0131yorsun, bir k\u00f6\u015fede onu unutulmaya terk ediyorsun. Bir yere oturuyorsun, s\u0131rf g\u00f6steri\u015f olsun diye belki ad\u0131n\u0131 bile zor s\u00f6yledi\u011fin o yeme\u011fi sipari\u015f veriyorsun, iyi de neden? Bu hayatta var olman\u0131n, keyifli ya\u015faman\u0131n bir s\u00fcr\u00fc yolu varken insano\u011flu hep basit olana ka\u00e7\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6yleymi\u015f gibi yapmay\u0131 seviyoruz. E\u011fleniyormu\u015f gibi, ya\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f gibi, biliyormu\u015f gibi\u2026 Ama bilmiyoruz ki bu girdab\u0131n sonu bizi sadece daha yaln\u0131z insanlar olmaya s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u00fcyor. Hayat\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 ararken kendimizi defalarca kaybediyoruz, en sonunda o kadar uzakla\u015f\u0131yoruz ki kendimizden, sadece bir robot gibi ayn\u0131 hareketleri yap\u0131yor ve birbirimizi inand\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Mutlu olman\u0131n yolu asl\u0131nda bu de\u011fil, sen asl\u0131nda bu de\u011filsin. Belki \u00e7ok keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n ama s\u0131rf insanlar taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6r\u00fclen bu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyler var. Oysa bizi biz yapan zaten bamba\u015fka insanlar olup, bamba\u015fka \u015feylerden keyif almak de\u011fil midir? <\/span><\/p>\n

E\u011fer bu hayatta ger\u00e7ekten var olmak istiyorsan, varm\u0131\u015f gibi yapmaktan yorulduysan, bug\u00fcn de\u011fi\u015ftir kendini. G\u00fczel bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yap, tak kulakl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, asl\u0131nda sen kimdin hat\u0131rla. Ger\u00e7ekten nefes almay\u0131 hat\u0131rla, o i\u00e7ten g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rla. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hepimiz de\u011ferliyiz ve kimse bir di\u011ferinden onunla ayn\u0131 zevkleri payla\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in eksik de\u011fil. Ayn\u0131 olmak zorunda de\u011filiz. Kendini sev ve kendine de\u011fer ver. Hayat insanlar\u0131n seni y\u0131pratmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u0131sa. Biliyorum \u00e7o\u011fumuz e\u011fer yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z eylemleri insanlar g\u00f6rmezse ve onaylamazsa ,o zaman o eylemin hi\u00e7bir anlam\u0131 yokmu\u015f gibi hissediyoruz. Bunun insan psikolojisine olan etkisi de hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki olumsuz y\u00f6nde. Bir\u00e7ok insan sosyalle\u015fti\u011fini zannetse de, asl\u0131nda i\u00e7 ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yaln\u0131zl\u0131k hissediyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ruhu dinlenmiyor, doymuyor. Oysaki an\u0131 kaliteli ya\u015famay\u0131 ke\u015ffetsek, o tad\u0131 bir kez alsak geri kalan hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin \u00f6nemi olmaz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n seni nas\u0131l g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kimin senin hakk\u0131nda ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fi\u2026 \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden de\u011fi\u015ftirmelisin kendini, yeniden bulmal\u0131s\u0131n. Nas\u0131l olacak diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden ve \u201cAcaba insanlar ne der?\u201d sorusunu akl\u0131na getirmeden.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y\u0131llar sonra aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ne g\u00f6rmek istiyorsun bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn ve karar ver. \u00a0Pi\u015fmanl\u0131k, korku ve ya\u015fan\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f y\u0131llar\u0131n endi\u015fesi mi, yoksa tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kararak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n ufak ve g\u00fczel an\u0131lar\u0131n verdi\u011fi mutluluk, doymu\u015fluk ve keyif mi? Unutma bir kez geliyoruz bu d\u00fcnyaya ve asl\u0131nda hepimiz birer iz b\u0131rakman\u0131n, bu hayatta hat\u0131rlanman\u0131n pe\u015findeyiz. Yanl\u0131\u015f sosyalle\u015fmenin de\u011fil. Bunu bilin\u00e7sizce yap\u0131yoruz ama \u00f6nemli olan bu zamana kadar yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok ,bundan sonra yapacaklar\u0131m\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcn ya\u015fand\u0131 ve bitti, bug\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnde yepyeni bir g\u00fcn var, bug\u00fcn\u00fcn kaptan\u0131 sensin. Hayat\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015ftan yazmak da senin elinde, bu d\u00fczeni s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek de. Se\u00e7imini yap ve kendi hikayeni bug\u00fcn ba\u015ftan yaz!<\/span><\/p>\n

YAZAR:<\/em> Nisan KAYSER\u0130L\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n

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