{"id":5655,"date":"2025-03-28T21:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-03-28T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=5655"},"modified":"2025-03-27T23:32:21","modified_gmt":"2025-03-27T20:32:21","slug":"yarin-yaparim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yarin-yaparim","title":{"rendered":"Yar\u0131n Yapar\u0131m"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015f ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalm\u0131\u015f, gelecek ise bize bakar. Biliriz ki att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her ad\u0131m, arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yola giden patikad\u0131r; tuttu\u011fumuz her dilek, gelece\u011fin bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir\u00e7ok hedefimiz var: bir \u015feyler olmak, bir \u015feyleri b\u00fcy\u00fctmek gibi. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz her d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeyi bekleyen bir dili vard\u0131r, nefeslerle \u015fekillendirilmi\u015f. Fakat size de bazen \u00f6yle gelmiyor mu, sanki yerinizde say\u0131yormu\u015fsunuz gibi? Sadece ben mi arafta oturup hayaller kuruyorum yoksa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tamamlanmas\u0131 gereken g\u00f6revler, yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken i\u015fler\u2026 Her \u015feyin bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc oldu\u011fu bir d\u00fcnyada, ertelemeye de bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulabilirsiniz. Zaman ge\u00e7iyor, ama ger\u00e7ekten sindirmeye vakit kal\u0131yor mu? Diyorum ki g\u00f6revler var\u2026 \u0130\u015fler, hedefler\u2026 \u0130nsan\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131ran, pe\u015finden ko\u015ftu\u011fu bir gelecek var. Hepimiz “biri” olmak i\u00e7in kendimizi a\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken hi\u00e7birimiz nereye gidece\u011fimizi bilemiyoruz. Birikiyor bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlar, ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilmek i\u00e7in; takvimlere ve keskin k\u00f6\u015feli kutulara yerle\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz bir “yap\u0131lacaklar listesi” oluyor. \u00d6yle ki bazen zaman\u0131 geliyor fakat onlar\u0131 tamamlamak \u00f6yle bir y\u00fcke d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor ki elinizi kolunuzu kald\u0131ram\u0131yorsunuz. \u201cKim inan\u0131r ki buna?\u201d Diyorsunuz kendi kendinize ve susup y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u00e7ekiyorsunuz sadece. Elbette, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n en s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 derdi bu oldu\u011fundan, bunlar\u0131 duymak pek romantik gelmiyor kula\u011fa fakat insan\u0131n i\u00e7ine i\u015fliyor elbet. T\u00fcm bunlar, yola olan \u015fevki k\u0131r\u0131yor ve neden o yolu se\u00e7ti\u011fini unutturuyor insana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duygular\u0131n\u0131z do\u011fan\u0131zda ikincil bir fakt\u00f6re d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, ister istemez kendinizden bir \u015feyleri kaybedersiniz. Zaman\u0131 farkl\u0131 kutuplara ay\u0131ran bir d\u00fcnyada, kimli\u011finizi g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak samanl\u0131kta i\u011fne aramaktan daha me\u015fakkatli de\u011fil midir?<\/strong> G\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen ve sindirilmeyen duygular, y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131karak ki\u015fiyi bunaltmas\u0131yla ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Cevap bulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? Ben her ak\u015fam, her g\u00fcne\u015f yery\u00fcz\u00fcne de\u011fdi\u011finde kendimi sorgulamaya devam ediyorum fakat ger\u00e7ekten ne istedi\u011fimi senelerdir anlayabilmi\u015f de\u011filim. B\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde ne oluyor sahiden? Her oyunu ba\u015far\u0131yla ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizde ne oluyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Belki de cevap aramaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc buland\u0131r\u0131yor. Haliyle her bilgiye muktedir ve h\u00e2kim olan modern insan, bilememenin deh\u015fetiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmekte zorlan\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilmedi\u011finizle ancak inanarak y\u00fczle\u015firsiniz ve inan\u00e7, duygular\u0131n \u00f6nceli\u011fiyle gelir. Belki de ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ve gelecekte kaybolan bu insanlar, i\u00e7lerini g\u00f6remiyorlar art\u0131k bu y\u00fczden. Belki de her eylemlerine o kadar yabanc\u0131la\u015f\u0131yorlar ki “yar\u0131n yapar\u0131m” diyerek ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131yorlar hepsinden. Sorguluyorlar kendilerini, hata ar\u0131yorlar ve su\u00e7luyorlar; neden bu yola ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 tekrar unutuyorlar. Ama ne kal\u0131r geriye benden bunlar\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda? Kemikten ve hayalden ba\u015fka? Bunlar istememekten de\u011fil, korkmaktan; insan\u0131n hissetmedi\u011fi ve bilmedi\u011fi, dilsiz gelece\u011fe olan korkusundan kaynaklan\u0131r. Yol nereye gidiyor, bilmiyoruz; ne kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsek de bazen cevap bulam\u0131yoruz. Do\u011frudur ya, hayalleri bilmeyiz; hayalleri ancak kurabiliriz. Bu akl\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen bir eylem de\u011fildir, hi\u00e7bir zaman da olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu y\u00fczden inanmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 olsa da, kalbinizi dinlemek bazen verebilece\u011finiz en mant\u0131kl\u0131 karar olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ece \u015eevval Kamilo\u011flu<\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/pin.it\/61tMOZnP7<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Duygular\u0131n\u0131z do\u011fan\u0131zda ikincil bir fakt\u00f6re d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, ister istemez kendinizden bir \u015feyleri kaybedersiniz. Zaman\u0131 farkl\u0131 kutuplara ay\u0131ran bir d\u00fcnyada, kimli\u011finizi g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak samanl\u0131kta i\u011fne aramaktan daha me\u015fakkatli de\u011fil midir?”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5656,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nYar\u0131n Yapar\u0131m | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yarin-yaparim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Yar\u0131n Yapar\u0131m | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta 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