{"id":4493,"date":"2023-04-13T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-13T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=4493"},"modified":"2023-04-13T13:09:49","modified_gmt":"2023-04-13T10:09:49","slug":"mecburiyet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/mecburiyet","title":{"rendered":"Mecburiyet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>(Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumak yakla\u015f\u0131k 3 dk s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Merhaba sevgili okur, tekrar ho\u015f geldin. Yaz\u0131 yazmay\u0131, her ay burada seninle bulu\u015fmay\u0131 seviyorum. Hepimiz seviyoruz. Blog, ben ve di\u011fer yazar arkada\u015flar\u0131m i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 farkl\u0131 anlamlar ta\u015f\u0131makta. Kendimizi farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde yans\u0131tmay\u0131 seviyoruz. Benim i\u00e7in biraz sohbet alan\u0131 gibi, kendimle ve sizinle sohbet etti\u011fim bir alan. Hepimiz hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nday\u0131z. \u00c7oktan \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 defalarca tekrar tekrar \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcyoruz. Ben bu s\u00fcreci buraya anlatarak ya\u015famay\u0131 seviyorum. Akl\u0131mdan ge\u00e7en onlarca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi, korkuyu s\u0131raya dizerek i\u00e7 karart\u0131c\u0131 halinden \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Bunu sizinle payla\u015f\u0131yorum. Ama tek amac\u0131m bu olabilir mi, bilemiyorum. San\u0131r\u0131m yaln\u0131zca sizi ikna etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Evet sevgili okur, ya\u015farken hissetti\u011fim her hissi burada sizinle sorgulayan ben bu durumu da sizinle burada sorguluyorum. Bu yaz\u0131larda yaln\u0131zca sizi de\u011fil asl\u0131nda kendimi ikna \u00e7abalar\u0131m da var. Hayata pozitif bakmak g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fartlar\u0131nda \u00e7ok zor. Belirsizlik korkular\u0131m\u0131z, hayat\u0131 izledi\u011fimiz pencerelerin her seferinde de\u011fi\u015fmesi, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, huzur aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 vs gibi konular bir\u00e7o\u011fumuzun akl\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en sorunlar asl\u0131nda. Kimimiz bunlar\u0131 sorgulamamay\u0131 se\u00e7iyor, kimimiz bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bo\u011fuluyor. Baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z ise benim gibi, o karanl\u0131kta kalmamak i\u00e7in o d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri bir ipe dizip pozitif anlam \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Hayatla ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemimiz hepimizin tabii ki farkl\u0131. Benim sistemim i\u00e7in sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 denilebilir mi? Tam say\u0131lmaz san\u0131r\u0131m. Her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenizi her hissinizi sorgulamak ve ait oldu\u011fu kategoriye ittirmek gibi bir sonuca gidebiliyor, en az\u0131ndan benim i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle oldu. Bir noktada bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi bir yere d\u00f6kmek gerekiyor, zihninizden ta\u015f\u0131yor. Benim i\u00e7in bu yer Blog oldu. Blog\u2019a ilk kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131mdaki hedefim ile farkl\u0131 yerlerdeyim ancak bu beni mutsuz etmiyor. Payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 seviyorum.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Asl\u0131nda sorun hayat\u0131n iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc bir yer olmas\u0131, bizi bekleyen \u015feylerin iyi \u015feyler olabilece\u011fi de\u011fil. Sorun bu sonu\u00e7lardan hangisi olursa olsun ya\u015famak zorunda olu\u015fumuz. \u0130yi de bakabiliriz. K\u00f6t\u00fc de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz. \u00c7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabiliriz ya da g\u00f6rmezden gelebiliriz. Ne olursa olsun ya\u015famam\u0131z gerekecek. Belirsizlikler bizi korkutsun, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klardan ka\u00e7al\u0131m, huzursuz oldu\u011fumuz d\u00f6nemlerden korkal\u0131m ya da hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek olaylar\u0131n merak\u0131nda ya\u015fayal\u0131m. Mecburuz ya\u015famaya.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Arzu \u015eahin<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>G\u00f6rsel Kaynak\u00e7a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-wordpress wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-do-it-before-me\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"2NqRijoAfx\"><a href=\"https:\/\/doitbeforeme.com\/trippy-dark-aesthetic-wallpaper\/\">20 Mind-Bending Dark Aesthetic Wallpapers to Warp Your Reality<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;20 Mind-Bending Dark Aesthetic Wallpapers to Warp Your Reality&#8221; &#8212; Do It Before Me\" src=\"https:\/\/doitbeforeme.com\/trippy-dark-aesthetic-wallpaper\/embed\/#?secret=7oMLSso3zt#?secret=2NqRijoAfx\" data-secret=\"2NqRijoAfx\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" 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