{"id":4373,"date":"2023-01-03T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-03T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=4373"},"modified":"2023-01-03T07:41:31","modified_gmt":"2023-01-03T04:41:31","slug":"yeni-mi-yil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yeni-mi-yil","title":{"rendered":"Yeni Mi Y\u0131l?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131k 4 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her yer \u0131\u015f\u0131l \u0131\u015f\u0131l; a\u011fa\u00e7lar s\u00fcslenmi\u015f, sokaklar \u0131\u015f\u0131kland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde bile bir canl\u0131l\u0131k var. Belki yeni y\u0131la a\u00e7\u0131lan kuca\u011f\u0131n heyecan\u0131d\u0131r bu belki de ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi zorlu seneden kurtulman\u0131n verdi\u011fi rahatl\u0131kt\u0131r. Ama ne g\u00fczel i\u015fte sonunda da olsa bir hayat belirtisi g\u00f6steriyor, hala ya\u015f\u0131yorum diye!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcm bu ko\u015fu\u015fturmacalar\u0131n yan\u0131nda yepyeni hayaller kuruluyor, planlar yap\u0131l\u0131yor. T\u00fcm sene boyunca ertelenen ne varsa bu kez son olarak yeni y\u0131la y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131veriyor. Kimi planlar cesaret edinmeyi bekliyor, kimisi tan\u0131nmay\u0131, kimisi ise fark edilmeyi\u2026&nbsp; 31 Aral\u0131k ak\u015fam\u0131 saat 23.59\u2019a kadar s\u00fcre verdim hepsine. Saat tam 00.00 oldu mu istedi\u011fim ki\u015fi gibi olacakt\u0131m. Zaten ka\u00e7 pazartesi ertelemi\u015fim, ka\u00e7 haftalar ge\u00e7mi\u015f, son kozumu oynuyorum bu sefer.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00fcf\u00fcr etmeyi b\u0131rakmakla ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m mesela, kendime de hi\u00e7 yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yordum zaten. C\u0131v\u0131l c\u0131v\u0131l konu\u015fup, konu\u015ftuk\u00e7a sevgi sa\u00e7arken k\u00fcf\u00fcr bunun neresinde olabilirdi ki? Ya da \u015fu an etti\u011fimden daha \u00e7ok k\u00fcfretmek istiyorum. Sinirimi bast\u0131r\u0131p susarak, di\u015flerimi s\u0131k\u0131p sonradan a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmek yerine ba\u011f\u0131ra \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rma kusmak istiyorum \u00f6fkemi, kendime sert s\u0131n\u0131rlar koymak yerine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00fczle\u015fmelere kap\u0131 a\u00e7mak istiyorum bu sene. Halletmeden kapat\u0131p \u00fcst\u00fcne defalarca kilit vurdu\u011fum kap\u0131lar\u0131 tek tek a\u00e7mak istiyorum. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumu alsam kar\u015f\u0131ma, o an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m her \u015feyi kabul etti\u011fimi affetti\u011fimi s\u00f6ylesem, bug\u00fcn nas\u0131l oldu\u011fumu anlatsam, gelece\u011fin belirsizli\u011fi hakk\u0131nda sohbet etsek biraz\u2026 Eminim k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Duygu, bug\u00fcn oldu\u011fum konuma, hissetti\u011fim t\u00fcm duygulara belki de en \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f olmama \u015fa\u015f\u0131racak.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hep erteledi\u011fim ve asla al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getiremedi\u011fim sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 beslenmeyi, spor yapmay\u0131, g\u00fcne\u015fle birlikte uyanmal\u0131 bir rutin hayata ba\u015flamak istiyorum mesela. Kendime verebilece\u011fim en g\u00fczel yeni y\u0131l hediyesi, ona iyi bakmak olabilir bence. Bir yandan da saatlerce uyumak, yataktan \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131p tembellik etmek, hayats\u0131zca dizi izlemek istiyorum; upuzun bir senenin ard\u0131ndan dinlenmeye de hakk\u0131m vard\u0131r herhalde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hala daha \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011frenmek istiyorum, daha \u00e7ok okuyay\u0131m, daha \u00e7ok ara\u015ft\u0131ray\u0131m istiyorum. Okunmay\u0131 bekleyen binlerce kitapla tan\u0131\u015fay\u0131m, ke\u015ffedilmeyi bekleyen t\u00fcm \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p dinleyeyim. T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n getirdi\u011fi yorgunlukla kapal\u0131 kutu olmak istiyorum zaman zaman. Bu kadar\u0131 yeter diyebilmek istiyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcm duygular\u0131 tan\u0131mak, hepsini doya doya ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir sene ge\u00e7irmek istiyorum en \u00e7ok. Hepsini misafir edebileyim hayat\u0131mda, iyi veya k\u00f6t\u00fc diye s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131rmadan. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 daha \u00e7ok yazaca\u011f\u0131m, yazd\u0131k\u00e7a kendime \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutaca\u011f\u0131m. Daha buraya yazamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ka\u00e7 ikilem varsa bir se\u00e7im yapacak, birtak\u0131m kabullenmeler ya\u015fayacak ve ne olursa olsun \u201c\u0130yi ki!\u201d diyebilece\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu sene de hangi yeni karar\u0131 uygularsam, ikilemlerden hangisini se\u00e7ersem se\u00e7eyim yeni y\u0131llar hep iyi geldi, yine \u00e7ok iyi gelecek. Ama gelirken \u015fu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 da getirse \u00e7ok iyi olur: \u201cY\u0131l m\u0131 yeni, yoksa benim mi yenili\u011fe ihtiyac\u0131m var?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Duygu AKKU\u015eYaz\u0131 g\u00f6rseli: <a href=\"https:\/\/i.pinimg.com\/564x\/02\/53\/27\/025327a6ef67da79787a83ace7fe3247.jpg\">https:\/\/i.pinimg.com\/564x\/02\/53\/27\/025327a6ef67da79787a83ace7fe3247.jpg<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Y\u0131l m\u0131 yeni, yoksa benim mi yenili\u011fe ihtiyac\u0131m var?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":4374,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Yeni Mi Y\u0131l? | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/yeni-mi-yil\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Yeni Mi Y\u0131l? 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