{"id":4317,"date":"2022-12-01T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-01T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=4317"},"modified":"2022-12-01T15:21:12","modified_gmt":"2022-12-01T12:21:12","slug":"adsiz-yalnizlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/adsiz-yalnizlik","title":{"rendered":"Ads\u0131z Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimse kimseyi tan\u0131maz buralarda, herkes yabanc\u0131 ona buna. Sokaklar iyice geni\u015fledi. Mahalleler kurulurken, geni\u015flemeye doymad\u0131 \u015fehir. Da\u011flar y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131, yollar evsiz kald\u0131\u2026 \u015eimdi hepimiz buralarda tatl\u0131 yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n neresinde oldu\u011fumuzu hi\u00e7 sorgulam\u0131yoruz. Asl\u0131nda bunu anlamak baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a kolay. Yaln\u0131z olmay\u0131 kabul etmek daha zor. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k; b\u00fcsb\u00fct\u00fcn bir kelime. \u00d6yle herkesin cesurca s\u00f6yleyemeyece\u011fi bir kelime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, hem maddi hem de manevidir. Duygusal da hissettirir kendini, fiziksel anlam\u0131 da olduk\u00e7a serttir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gri betonlar\u0131 su\u00e7lad\u0131k durduk. Neydi bu \u015fehirlerin su\u00e7u? Yaln\u0131zsak hep yaln\u0131zd\u0131k ya! \u0130ki bina fazla oldu diye kimse yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa maruz kalmad\u0131. Hi\u00e7 bakmad\u0131k nerede yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za. Aram\u0131za duvarlar girdi de biz a\u015fmak istedik mi acaba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayattaki ilk yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 anne karn\u0131ndan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda tad\u0131yoruz \u00f6nce. Bir anda ay\u0131r\u0131yorlar bizi annemizden. Kendimizi g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fimiz o alandan kap\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 ediliyoruz. Zaman i\u00e7erisinde farkl\u0131 dinamikler al\u0131yor yaln\u0131zl\u0131k. Bilinmez de bu i\u015fte, belki iyi olan da b\u00f6yledir. Farkl\u0131la\u015f\u0131yoruz k\u0131saca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bildi\u011finden vazge\u00e7me diyorlar. Bizim bildi\u011fimiz yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde ac\u0131 var, h\u00fcz\u00fcn var. K\u00fclt\u00fcr temelli yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6\u011fretisi hi\u00e7 de hayra alamet de\u011fildir. Yaz\u0131n kuru s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131nda bile o yaln\u0131zl\u0131k bizi \u00fc\u015f\u00fct\u00fcr, aln\u0131m\u0131zdan so\u011fuk terler ak\u0131t\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fabilirsin istersen. Hatta yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayanlar senin yak\u0131n\u0131n olurlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc birbirinizin yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na anlam kazand\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k; soyut oldu\u011fu kadar somuttur da, pek ak\u0131\u015fkand\u0131r. Temel anlam\u0131ndan uzakla\u015fmaya \u00e7ok m\u00fcsaittir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uzak kalam\u0131yorum yaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan. Taviz vermemeliyim diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayan herkese sorumlu olmaktan endi\u015fe ediyorum. \u0130\u00e7imdeki bu ads\u0131z tarifi anlatam\u0131yorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6ylece kals\u0131n istiyorum. Her \u015feyi \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan yoruldu\u011fumu anl\u0131yorum. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n benim i\u00e7in olan anlam\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ylece bir kenara \u00f6teliyorum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Samet Can Avcu<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6rsel Kayna\u011f\u0131: Sahibi Benim<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayan herkese sorumlu olmaktan endi\u015fe ediyorum. \u0130\u00e7imdeki bu ads\u0131z tarifi anlatam\u0131yorum. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":67,"featured_media":4318,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Ads\u0131z Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta 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