{"id":4011,"date":"2022-06-30T17:34:12","date_gmt":"2022-06-30T14:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=4011"},"modified":"2022-06-30T17:34:14","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T14:34:14","slug":"son-pismanlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/son-pismanlik","title":{"rendered":"Son Pi\u015fmanl\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

                                 (Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u201c\u015eimdi bana kaybolan y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131 verseler,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  \u015eimdi bana bir \u00f6m\u00fcr vadetseler,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Tek bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeye hakk\u0131m var m\u0131?\u201d <\/em>(Sezen Aksu- Kaybolan Y\u0131llar)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  \u00dczerine titredi\u011finiz y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tek bir g\u00fcnde pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131zdan dolay\u0131 silebilir misiniz? Yoksa, ger\u00e7ekten onu telafi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak bir s\u00f6z var m\u0131? Telafi etmeyi bilmem de y\u0131llar\u0131n tekrarlanan hatalar\u0131 akl\u0131ma geldi\u011finde, Fethi Naci\u2019nin \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc akl\u0131ma gelir: \u201cKarpuzu kestin. Bakt\u0131n ki kabak. Gene de zorla yiyecek misin o karpuzu?\u201d Soruyorum size, son pi\u015fmanlardan olmayacak, gene de son bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek isteyecek misiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   Ya\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz i\u015fte hayat\u0131. Kimi s\u00f6zler bize yolculuk ediyorken, kimi s\u00f6zler do\u011fruluktan bi\u2019 haber. Ya sonradan hat\u0131rlanan s\u00f6zler… \u0130nan\u0131n \u00e7ocukken bunlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 \u00f6nemsemezdim. Her \u015fey daha samimi, renkli gelirdi. Pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m en fazla \u00e7izgi filmlerde ya da bir u\u00e7urtman\u0131n ipinde kal\u0131rd\u0131. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e her \u015feyin de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fi gibi renklerin soldu\u011funu, pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n da isteklerin de arzular\u0131n da \u00f6fkenin de de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini anlad\u0131m. B\u00fcy\u00fcmek bu olsa gerek! Yani, elbette sadece b\u00fcy\u00fcmekten bahsetmiyorum. Bana garip gelen \u015fey; nas\u0131l olur da bir zamanlar \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim, y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131 heba etti\u011fim ya da bu zamana kadar hi\u00e7 g\u00f6z\u00fcme batmam\u0131\u015f bir \u015feyleri sevemem. Nas\u0131l olur da ondan pi\u015fman olurum? Bilmem, belki de \u015fu anda \u00e7ok istedi\u011fim olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in pe\u015finden ko\u015ftu\u011fum her ne varsa ileride pi\u015fman olaca\u011f\u0131m. Bu y\u00fczden hayattan bir \u015fey dilerken, enlerden ziyade hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131 neyse onu dilemek en iyisi. Ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z boyunca yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fczde e\u011frelti durmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in bu temennileri dile getirmek en g\u00fczeli. Yoksa, kal\u0131r \u00fczerimizde ya\u015faman\u0131n su\u00e7u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   \u201c\u015eimdi art\u0131k kelimeler yetersiz anlam\u0131 yok.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

   Gel bunlar\u0131 b\u0131rakal\u0131m art\u0131k bir tarafa,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

   Ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6rmeliyiz dostum ba\u015fka \u00e7aresi yok.\u201d <\/em>(Sezen Aksu- Kaybolan Y\u0131llar)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   Kelimeler her \u015feyi ifade etmeye yetmiyor, korkuyoruz bazen. Her \u015feyi bir tarafa b\u0131rak\u0131p da ger\u00e7ekleri g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z o an heyecan\u0131 yitiriyoruz. Derin sessizliklerde s\u00fcrekli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz olan\u0131, biteni, y\u0131llar\u0131. Pi\u015fman\u0131z belki de ama son pi\u015fmanlardan\u0131z dedik ya bir kere. Fakat, ge\u00e7enlerde biri, \u201cBir \u015feylerin son oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, her ne olursa olsun i\u00e7inizde bir yumru biriktirirdi.\u201d demi\u015fti, hakl\u0131yd\u0131 da. Son olan; \u00f6tesi yok demekti. Nihayetinde ne ya\u015fan\u0131rsa ya\u015fans\u0131n o hislerimiz de\u011fil miydi? Onu da yad\u0131rgamamak gerekmez miydi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

   Ancak bizler, “Geriye d\u00f6nemeyiz, o kadar da gen\u00e7 say\u0131lmay\u0131z. \u00c7\u00f6lde karanfil bulmak isteyecek kadar da de\u011filiz. Susuzluktan, ke\u015fkelerden, ac\u0131lardan ve anlardan \u00f6c\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc alamay\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, bunun ad\u0131 son olan pi\u015fmanl\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yazar<\/em>: Hayrunnisa Turan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cGeriye d\u00f6nemeyiz, o kadar da gen\u00e7 say\u0131lmay\u0131z. \u00c7\u00f6lde karanfil bulmak isteyecek kadar da de\u011filiz. Susuzluktan, ke\u015fkelerden, ac\u0131lardan ve anlardan \u00f6c\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc alamay\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, bunun ad\u0131 son olan pi\u015fmanl\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":63,"featured_media":4012,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nSon Pi\u015fmanl\u0131k | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/son-pismanlik\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Son Pi\u015fmanl\u0131k | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" 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