{"id":3991,"date":"2022-06-18T18:50:32","date_gmt":"2022-06-18T15:50:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=3991"},"modified":"2022-06-18T18:50:34","modified_gmt":"2022-06-18T15:50:34","slug":"psinossa-85-bagislama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/psinossa-85-bagislama","title":{"rendered":"PsiNossa 85: Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>\u201c<\/em><\/strong><em>Biz ne lotus \u00e7i\u00e7eklerini \u00e7amurlu suda bo\u011fduk ne de onlar\u0131 zihnimizin su birikintisinde tutmaya devam ettik; biz sadece onlar\u0131 serbest b\u0131rakt\u0131k yerine yeni an\u0131lar\u0131 koyabilmek i\u00e7in&#8230;\u201d (\u00c7\u0131kr\u0131kc\u0131, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"741\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo1655567181-741x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3992\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo1655567181-741x1024.jpeg 741w, http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo1655567181-217x300.jpeg 217w, http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo1655567181-768x1062.jpeg 768w, http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo1655567181.jpeg 926w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 739px) 94vw, (max-width: 741px) 88vw, 741px\" \/><figcaption>\u00c7izim: <em>\u0130kra \u00c7apc\u0131<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 veya kendini affetmek Kintsukuroi sanat\u0131na benzer. Ki\u015fi affetti\u011finde, ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131ktan sonra alt\u0131nla onar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi daha sa\u011flam ve ruhsal olarak daha din\u00e7 olabilir.\u201d (Kablan, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><em>\u201cTanr\u0131 i\u00e7in affetmek tabii ki kolayd\u0131r. \u0130nsan i\u00e7in \u00f6yle mi?\u201d (Dostoyevski, 2007 akt. Pa\u00e7al, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cSevgi sonsuz bir ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama oyunudur. Bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline gelen \u015fefkatli bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d (Ustinov akt. Ayber, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><br>\u201cBa\u011f\u0131\u015flamak \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u015fey de\u011fil; affetmek, sevmek demek de\u011fildir. Affetmek, yak\u0131n ili\u015fkine devam etmek de\u011fildir. Affetmek, art\u0131k g\u00f6rmezden gelmek de\u011fildir. \u0130nsan s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 koruyaraktan affedebilir. Yani, art\u0131k eskisi gibi olmayacak, ben bunu bir daha kendime yapt\u0131rmam fakat bunun bu kadar hayat\u0131m\u0131 etkilemesine art\u0131k m\u00fcsaade etmiyorum, demekte bir affetmektir.\u201d (\u00c7elik, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201c\u0130nsan aynada kendi g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131p bilin\u00e7alt\u0131nda neler hissetti\u011fini \u00e7\u00f6zebilmeli, duygular\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmeli ve kendisine y\u00fcklenmemelidir.\u201d (Y\u0131lmaz, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cNarsistik bireylerin, sahip oldu\u011fu bireysel farkl\u0131l\u0131klar, bozuklu\u011fun alt boyutlar\u0131, bireylerin ili\u015fkilerini nas\u0131l g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri, ili\u015fkilerinde hangi ba\u011flanma t\u00fcr\u00fcne sahip olduklar\u0131 gibi pek \u00e7ok fakt\u00f6r bireylerin affetme seviyesini etkiler.\u201d (Zafer, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cBireyin kendini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamas\u0131 sonucu geri d\u00f6nmek istedi\u011fi hayat onu tekrar kar\u015f\u0131lamaz ya da iyi bir hayata kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k birey kendini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamazsa uyu\u015fturucu ile m\u00fccadele yapbozu tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f olur.\u201d (\u00d6zcan, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cKendini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamak, d\u00fcnyadaki her \u015feyi affetmeye do\u011fru giden yoldaki duraklardan biri.\u201d (Uysal, 2022)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>\u201c&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><em>Filozoflar sorar\u0131m size nedir en b\u00fcy\u00fck erdem? 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