{"id":3887,"date":"2022-04-30T18:34:34","date_gmt":"2022-04-30T15:34:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=3887"},"modified":"2022-04-30T18:34:36","modified_gmt":"2022-04-30T15:34:36","slug":"benlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/benlik","title":{"rendered":"Benlik"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Ko\u015farken savrulan u\u00e7u\u015fan sa\u00e7lar\u0131m m\u0131 yoksa ya\u015fl\u0131 birinin sessiz sedas\u0131z bekleyi\u015fleri mi? Beynimi dolduran me\u015fguliyetlerim miyim, yoksa bombo\u015f oturan bir k\u0131z m\u0131y\u0131m? Ben ger\u00e7ekten anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131yor muyum yoksa yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0131 aktar\u0131yorum? Ben hangisiyim? Ben kimim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Etraf\u0131nda \u00e7ok ki\u015fi olsun isteyen kalabal\u0131k m\u0131y\u0131m ya da yaln\u0131z kalmay\u0131 seven sessizlik mi? Sizce her \u015feyi ben mi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyorum? Durduramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m h\u0131rslar\u0131m m\u0131 , g\u00f6rmekten b\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m mutsuz suratlar m\u0131 yoksa g\u00f6rmeyi \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim ne\u015feli bak\u0131\u015flar m\u0131?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Asl\u0131nda ben biz hepsiyiz. Bazen k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir kalp ya da mutlu etmek i\u00e7in fedakarl\u0131ktan ibaretim. Bazen delicesine cesur bazen \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne korkak. Bazen eksik bazen m\u00fckemmel. Bazen yalan bazen d\u00fcr\u00fcst. Asl\u0131nda biliyor musun? Bu kaos benim. Bu kaos biziz.&nbsp;&nbsp;\u0130\u00e7imde arada bir yerlerde varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetti\u011fim bu benlik sorular\u0131 kendini belli ediyor. Benim d\u00fcnyamda benlik durgunlu\u011fum ve co\u015fkumu ifade ediyor. Hala k\u00f6\u015fede bir yerde ke\u015ffedilmeyen benliklerimi saym\u0131yorum bile\u2026 Seni benden ay\u0131ran \u015fey i\u015fte bu benlik. Beni nas\u0131l buluyorsan asl\u0131nda kendini de \u00f6yle buluyorsun demektir. Bir yerlerde ba\u015fkas\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m iyili\u011fi asl\u0131nda kendime yapt\u0131m. K\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir kalpten sonra asl\u0131nda \u00f6nce kendim k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131m. Bunun fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m anda, benlik anlam kazan\u0131yor ruhumda. Biliyorum ki, bu d\u00f6ng\u00fcn\u00fcn neresinde oldu\u011fumu idrak etti\u011fim noktada \u00f6z\u00fcm ile bar\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131m, bar\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131z. Haydi durup bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Acaba benlik alg\u0131m, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n neresinde ve onunla huzursuz bir uyumsuzluk i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in mi karma\u015f\u0131kla\u015f\u0131yor \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz. Kendi a\u00e7\u0131mdan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m yerleri bir de senin a\u00e7\u0131ndan bakarak de\u011fi\u015f toku\u015f yap\u0131yorum ve o zaman hissediyorum bu derin benli\u011fi\u2026Yarg\u0131lamak, her \u015feyden \u00e7ok kolay; ben zor olan\u0131 se\u00e7ip benli\u011fime d\u00f6n\u00fcyorum d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi se\u00e7iyorum. Ke\u015ffedilmeyen benliklerimizde birbirimizi bulmam\u0131z dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Yazar<\/em>: Berivan Kumral\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cKo\u015farken savrulan u\u00e7u\u015fan sa\u00e7lar\u0131m m\u0131 yoksa ya\u015fl\u0131 birinin sessiz sedas\u0131z bekleyi\u015fleri mi? Beynimi dolduran me\u015fguliyetlerim miyim yoksa bombo\u015f oturan bir k\u0131z m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":3888,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Benlik | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/benlik\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Benlik | Ak\u0131l Defterim\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" 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