(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunma s\u00fcresi yakla\u015f\u0131k 3 dakikad\u0131r.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat denen yolun i\u00e7erisinde, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen ve bilinmeyen anla\u015fmalar silsilesi gizlidir. Biz daha do\u011fmadan \u00f6nce kabul etmek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, nam\u0131 di\u011fer kurallardan bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ka\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, kendimize yeni bir d\u00fcnya kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. G\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 olan ise zaten milyonlarca y\u0131l i\u00e7erisinde, bizim yeni ke\u015ffetti\u011fimiz \u00e7oktan denenmi\u015f; belki vazge\u00e7ilmi\u015f bir umut k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 olarak eklenmi\u015ftir insanl\u0131k tarihine. \u00c7\u00f6ldeki kum tanesinden ise farks\u0131zd\u0131r aray\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00f6zs\u00fcz anla\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131zdan birisi, uyum sa\u011flamakt\u0131r. Uyumsuz gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen her birey, d\u00f6nen \u00e7ark\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r asl\u0131nda. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n en temel i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fc, evrimin konusu adaptasyon, y\u0131llard\u0131r bizi hayatta tutmu\u015f ve tutmaya da devam edecektir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndaki adaptasyon s\u00fcreci ise y\u0131llard\u0131r tart\u0131\u015fmalara konu olan, sonu gelmez kafa patlatmalar\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca konular\u0131ndand\u0131r asl\u0131nda. Her yolun sonunda, sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z uyuma hayretle bakar\u0131z \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Bir bomba d\u00fc\u015fer kalbimizin orta yerine, yuvam\u0131za, belki de yuva olana\u2026 Saatler ge\u00e7er, belki g\u00fcnler, sonra haftalar… O bomba, eskisi kadar y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 kalmaz yerinde. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7er, tarih dedi\u011fimiz kitapl\u0131\u011f\u0131n raflar\u0131nda \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmeye y\u00fcz tutar. Oradad\u0131r ama de\u011fildir de. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gariptir ki, adaptasyon s\u00fcrecimiz unutmakla e\u015f zamanl\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kaybolmaz haf\u0131zalardan belki tamamen \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her beden kay\u0131t tutar. Fakat g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, as\u0131l al\u0131nan sinyallerin \u00e7ok gerisinde kal\u0131r. Adaptasyon s\u00fcreci iyidir, bizi ileriye ta\u015f\u0131r. Adaptasyonla gelen unutma s\u00fcreci ise k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr, tarihi tekrar tekrar farkl\u0131 boyutlarda ya\u015far dururuz. Sava\u015flar, ekonomik krizler ve salg\u0131nlar… D\u00fcnyan\u0131n sonu gelir san\u0131r\u0131z, asla gelmez. Bilmedi\u011fimiz belki de milyonlarca sava\u015f, kriz ve salg\u0131n, birer kullanma k\u0131lavuzu gibi durur \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde. A\u00e7\u0131p bakmaya tenezz\u00fcl etmeyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o an insanl\u0131ktan, ya\u015famdan, do\u011fadan ve hatta d\u00fcnyadan daha \u00f6nemli \u2018minicik sebepler\u2019 vard\u0131r. \u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner, tekerr\u00fcr ederiz. \u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner, unuturuz, uyum sa\u011flar\u0131z. \u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner ve ya\u015fananlar \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmeye y\u00fcz tutar. D\u00fc\u015fen bombalar, a\u011flayan \u00e7ocuklar, y\u0131k\u0131lan aileler birer k\u0131namayla belki de birer yapt\u0131r\u0131mla telafi edilir san\u0131r\u0131z. Edilmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Geride kalanlar, hayata tutunmak zorundad\u0131r. Minimum ya\u015fam \u015fartlar\u0131yla, ola\u011fan akli problemlerle devam ederler yollar\u0131na. Her g\u00fcn gelen zamlarla a\u00e7l\u0131k s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131na gelirler belki. K\u0131tl\u0131kla m\u00fccadele ederler. Ama insanl\u0131k ilerler. Yolda b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z ise arka planda oynayan, anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f birer plak gibi d\u00f6ner dururlar beynimizde. Ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z sona erene kadar ise benzer d\u00f6ng\u00fcleri g\u00f6r\u00fcr, i\u00e7imizdeki minicik insanl\u0131\u011fa dair umutla devam ederiz \u00e7ark\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeye. Ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yan\u0131lg\u0131d\u0131r bu. Bencilli\u011fimiz t\u00fckenecekmi\u015f gibi umut etmek(!). Anl\u0131k empatilerimizle, insan olduk san\u0131r\u0131z. Anl\u0131k yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla, medeniyet edindik sanar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u0131llard\u0131r her soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma, tecav\u00fcz edilme ya da \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclme korkusuyla ya\u015fayan bir orta do\u011fu vatanda\u015f\u0131na medeniyeti a\u00e7\u0131klamak nas\u0131l olur? Ya da sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlamland\u0131rabiliriz bir m\u00fcltecinin? Beden dili evrenseldir bilirsiniz. Korkunun ifadesi her yerde ayn\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ster mavi g\u00f6zl\u00fc, ister koyu tenli, isterse de farkl\u0131 dili konu\u015fan bir yabanc\u0131 olsun bize. A\u011flayan \u00e7ocuklar anlamland\u0131ramazken \u00e7evresindeki y\u00fcksek sesleri ve kaosu, bir g\u00fcn bizimde ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelebilir diye anl\u0131k empatimizle nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klayabiliriz art\u0131k, d\u0131\u015far\u0131da top oynaman\u0131n tehlikeli oldu\u011funu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do\u011far insanl\u0131k ak\u0131llar\u0131nda bir soruyla: D\u00fcnyaya g\u00fcvenebilir miyim? Ya\u015far insanl\u0131k: D\u00fcnyaya g\u00fcvenimi sa\u011flayabilirim. \u00d6l\u00fcr insanl\u0131k: Bir g\u00fcn t\u00fckenecek olan \u00f6m\u00fcr i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar aras\u0131na mahsur ettik kendimizi, hem de bir h\u0131rs u\u011fruna\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuduktan sonra Cem Adrian-\u0130nsan \u0130nsan \u015fark\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 dinlemeniz \u00f6nemle rica olunur.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yazar:<\/em> Sema Nur Terzi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201c\u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner tekerr\u00fcr ederiz. \u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner unuturuz, uyum sa\u011flar\u0131z. \u00c7arklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6ner ve ya\u015fananlar \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmeye y\u00fcz tutar. D\u00fc\u015fen bombalar, a\u011flayan \u00e7ocuklar, y\u0131k\u0131lan aileler birer k\u0131namayla belki de birer yapt\u0131r\u0131mla telafi edilir san\u0131r\u0131z. Edilmez.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":65,"featured_media":3815,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4,1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n