ZAMANI PAR\u00c7ALAMAK<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tik tak, guguk ve birbirinden farkl\u0131 alarm sesleri\u2026 Zaman\u0131n sesini hangisi bize en iyi yans\u0131t\u0131r?
Soyut olan zaman kavram\u0131n\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inde sindirerek somutla\u015ft\u0131rmak biz insanlara yak\u0131\u015fan bir harekettir. Planlar\u0131m\u0131z, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimiz, hayallerimiz ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z olmasa belki zaman, bizim i\u00e7in sadece sesten ve bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde fark\u0131nda olamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir kavramdan ibaret olacakt\u0131.
Bir de zaman\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc vard\u0131r elbet. Koca bir s\u00fcreyi hi\u00e7 olmam\u0131\u015f, hi\u00e7 ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f gibi ge\u00e7irmek de biz insanlara \u00f6zg\u00fcd\u00fcr. Tam da burada, zaman\u0131 par\u00e7alama devreye girer.
Zaman\u0131 par\u00e7alamay\u0131 asl\u0131nda ben iki z\u0131t anlamda kullan\u0131yorum. Yeti\u015femedi\u011fimiz, fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve h\u0131zla ge\u00e7en s\u00fcreyi yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak bir \u00e7e\u015fit “Zaman\u0131 durdursam ya da geriye alsam, \u015funlar\u0131 halletsem.” dedi\u011fimiz anda bizim i\u00e7in zaman par\u00e7alan\u0131r. S\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve normal i\u015fleyi\u015f d\u00fczenini kurcalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyi istemeden de olsa bozar ve par\u00e7alar\u0131z. Sonucunda ise elimizde sadece k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fck, par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck vakitler ve anlar kal\u0131r. Plan\u0131n plan\u0131n\u0131 yaparken dar vakitlerimiz de bunlarla dolar, en sonunda ba\u015ftan savma ve \u00fcst\u00fcnde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeden verilen bir avu\u00e7 kararla bir sonraki zaman trenini \u00e7aresiz bekleriz. Tabii ona da yeti\u015febilirsek.
Zaman\u0131 par\u00e7alaman\u0131n olumlu anlam\u0131 ise planl\u0131 bir zaman y\u00f6netimidir. G\u00fcnleri, aylar\u0131 ve hatta y\u0131llar\u0131 dizayn eder, her bir ana kendimizden b\u00f6l\u00fcmler ekler ve o an\u0131 ya\u015farken i\u00e7inde bizim olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131s\u0131mlar t\u00fcretiriz. Zaman, par\u00e7alanarak pasta dilimi gibi \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde durur; i\u015ftah\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kabart\u0131r; gelece\u011fi de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek dilimleri dikkatli yememiz konusunda bizi uyarmadan aradan s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131r. O dilimleri hemen mideye indirirsek fazla hayal ve hedef zehirlenmesinden her \u015feyi alt \u00fcst edebilir, gelecek i\u00e7in plans\u0131z kalabiliriz.
\u0130ki y\u00f6nl\u00fc zaman par\u00e7alamas\u0131 mutlulu\u011fuyla h\u00fczn\u00fcyle hayat\u0131m\u0131zdad\u0131r. Bize d\u00fc\u015fen her yanl\u0131\u015f par\u00e7alamada deneyim kazanmak, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6neterek kendi girdab\u0131na \u00e7ekmesine izin vermemektir.
Peki sen zaman\u0131 nas\u0131l par\u00e7al\u0131yorsun?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yazan: Beyza Nur F\u0131nd\u0131kc\u0131<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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”S\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve normal i\u015fleyi\u015f d\u00fczenini kurcalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyi istemeden de olsa bozar ve par\u00e7alar\u0131z. Sonucunda ise elimizde sadece k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fck, par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck vakitler ve anlar kal\u0131r.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":52,"featured_media":2791,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4],"tags":[327,181],"yoast_head":"\n