{"id":2428,"date":"2020-05-14T17:47:17","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T14:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=2428"},"modified":"2020-05-14T17:47:19","modified_gmt":"2020-05-14T14:47:19","slug":"don-bak-benligine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/don-bak-benligine","title":{"rendered":"D\u00f6n Bak Benli\u011fine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 dakika s\u00fcrmektedir.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Selam, bug\u00fcn nas\u0131ls\u0131n? Umar\u0131m kendine biraz vakit ay\u0131rabilmi\u015fsindir, sana iyi gelen \u015feyleri hayat\u0131na al\u0131p zarar verenlerden uzak kalabilmi\u015fsindir. Neden b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131n\u0131 diliyorum biliyor musun? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu senaryoda s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 belirlemek, y\u00fcr\u00fcyece\u011fin yolu se\u00e7mek senin elinde. Bug\u00fcne kadar kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ad\u0131mlar att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ediyorum \u015fahit oldu\u011fum kadar\u0131yla. Emek harcad\u0131n, can\u0131n yand\u0131 belki; fakat hi\u00e7 neden hep en kolay yolu se\u00e7ti\u011fini sordun mu kendine?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Risk ald\u0131n m\u0131 hi\u00e7 bu hayatta? Seni inand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 do\u011frular\u0131 sorgulamak i\u00e7in ufak da olsa \u00e7aba harcad\u0131n m\u0131? Bak\u0131yorum da elini kesmek korkusuyla k\u0131r\u0131k cam par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 toplayamam\u0131\u015f da \u00fcst\u00fcne kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcp \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f gibisin. Sahi sorduklar\u0131nda ne yan\u0131t vereceksin, toplumun kabul etti\u011fi her \u00f6nermeye mutlak do\u011frularm\u0131\u015fcas\u0131na tapt\u0131m m\u0131 diyeceksin?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sevdin mi hi\u00e7? \u00dcnl\u00fc bir m\u00fczik grubunun \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, aileni sevmek kolay. Soka\u011fa at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00f6zlerini kaybetmi\u015f bir kediyi, farkl\u0131 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kendini toplumdan soyutlam\u0131\u015f birini ve en \u00f6nemlisi iyisiyle k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcyle kabul edip kendini sevdi\u011fin bir zaman dilimi oldu mu hayat\u0131nda?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cevab\u0131n hay\u0131rsa eksiksin. Dayat\u0131lan\u0131n aksine kendi birikimlerin ad\u0131na sava\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in; kat\u0131ks\u0131z sevginin, ya\u015f\u0131yor hissetmenin k\u0131ymetini hen\u00fcz anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in; Her daim ilmek ilmek akl\u0131na i\u015flenen bilgileri karakterinden, fikirlerinden s\u00fczmeden onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in eksiksin. \u00c7o\u011funlu\u011fun kopyas\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in de\u011fil. \u00d6fkem ne sana ne de herhangi birine, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131\u011f gibi b\u00fcy\u00fcyen kirli y\u00fcz\u00fcne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu zor g\u00fcnlerde \u015fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi l\u00fctfen unutma! Her \u015feyin insanlar i\u00e7in var oldu\u011funu sananlar kadar tehlikeli varl\u0131k yoktur d\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde. Tahrip ederler, kalp k\u0131rarlar, ge\u00e7erli sand\u0131klar\u0131 kurallar koyar ve \u015fiddete ba\u015fvururlar. \u0130yinin ve k\u00f6t\u00fcn\u00fcn ayr\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapamayacak kadar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyamayacak kadar da yoksundurlar. Konu hesab\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6demeye gelince de d\u00fczene s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131rlar, ilgin\u00e7tir ki bahsettikleri d\u00fczen de y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde k\u0131l\u0131f uydura uydura yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r asl\u0131nda.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dolu dolu ya\u015fayabilece\u011fin, geri d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda iyi ki dedi\u011fin tecr\u00fcbelerle donatabilece\u011fin bir hayat var \u00f6n\u00fcnde. \u00d6n\u00fcn\u00fc kesmek isteyenler, do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131 savundu\u011fun i\u00e7in yarg\u0131layanlar, hatta i\u00e7inde depremler yaratacak kadar a\u011f\u0131r ithamlarda bulunanlar olacak. Yedi \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl g\u00fcnah\u0131n her birini g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serecekler, yolundan d\u00f6nmen i\u00e7in adeta duvarlar koyacaklar \u00f6n\u00fcne ancak ben her \u015feye ra\u011fmen inanmak istiyorum sana ait olan, seni sen yapan par\u00e7alara. E\u011fer istersen, t\u00fcm kalbinle ve benli\u011finle istersen en devrik c\u00fcmlelerden \u015fiirler yaratabilirsin. Son nefesini veren do\u011fan\u0131n \u00fcmidi, k\u00fcllerinden do\u011fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan o tertemiz duygular\u0131n sesi olabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar:&nbsp; Simay \u00c7omak<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bak\u0131yorum da elini kesmek korkusuyla k\u0131r\u0131k cam par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 toplayamam\u0131\u015f da \u00fcst\u00fcne kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcp \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f gibisin. Sahi sorduklar\u0131nda ne yan\u0131t vereceksin, toplumun kabul etti\u011fi her \u00f6nermeye mutlak do\u011frularm\u0131\u015fcas\u0131na tapt\u0131m m\u0131 diyeceksin? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":47,"featured_media":2429,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4],"tags":[318,384],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>D\u00f6n Bak Benli\u011fine | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/don-bak-benligine\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta 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