{"id":1958,"date":"2020-04-20T03:08:15","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T00:08:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=1958"},"modified":"2020-04-20T03:08:19","modified_gmt":"2020-04-20T00:08:19","slug":"mak-lazim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/mak-lazim","title":{"rendered":"Mak Laz\u0131m"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dikkat etmek laz\u0131m bazen; sevdi\u011fimize, sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze, g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze, di\u011fer bir\u00e7ok ho\u015f ve naho\u015f yanlar\u0131m\u0131za. Az\u0131msanmak ho\u015f de\u011fil. Sevilmeyi hak etmek laz\u0131m.<br><br>\u00c7ok seversek \u00e7ok kaybedece\u011fimizi unutmadan, \u00e7ok sayarsak \u00e7ok s\u0131vayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 atlamadan, \u00e7ok \u00f6versek \u00e7ok s\u00f6nece\u011fimiz alg\u0131s\u0131yla davran\u0131p olduk\u00e7a dikkatli olmam\u0131z laz\u0131m. \u201cHayat bu, bir kere gelece\u011fiz zaten d\u00fcnyaya, bu y\u00fczden doya doya ya\u015fayal\u0131m.\u201d S\u0131radanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kap\u0131lmadan ya\u015famak laz\u0131m bir de.<br><br>\u201cA\u015fk bulur bizi, s\u0131hhat zaten bizim elimizde; aile desen sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131lar.\u201d diyaloglar\u0131n\u0131n bize g\u00fc\u00e7 ve moral katma s\u00fcrelerinin k\u0131sa oldu\u011fu de\u011fi\u015fkenlere hapsolmamak; edebi yan\u0131m\u0131zla dalga ge\u00e7meden, i\u00e7imizdeki sosyeteyi susturup ebedi ger\u00e7eklerimize y\u00f6nelmemiz laz\u0131m. \u015eiir yazmay\u0131 seven gen\u00e7lerin sahip oldu\u011fu o sanatsal duyguyu hor g\u00f6rmemek; g\u00fczel konu\u015fanlara ho\u015f gitmek laz\u0131m.<br><br>Kal\u0131p yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bize y\u00fcklenen toplumsal ger\u00e7ekleri \u00f6z\u00fcmsememek, hissizle\u015fen parmak u\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131za kalemleri do\u011fru yerle\u015ftirmek laz\u0131m. Tebe\u015fir tozunun bo\u011faz\u0131m\u0131za s\u0131k ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlar\u0131 unutmadan, tuvalete gitmek i\u00e7in izin istemeye \u00e7ekindi\u011fimiz ilkokul y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131za sahip \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131z laz\u0131m.<br><br>Anne babayla olan m\u00fcnaka\u015falar\u0131m\u0131zdan utanmam\u0131z, sahiplendi\u011fimiz sirke dilimize hakim olmam\u0131z laz\u0131m. Cinsel d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimiz \u00f6znel, k\u00fcm\u00fclatif olana nesnel bakmam\u0131z laz\u0131m. Ger\u00e7e\u011fe uymak, do\u011fruya kanmak laz\u0131m.<br><br>Sabit fikirler geriye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr; ait fikirler yol g\u00f6sterir. D\u00fcnya toplumuna hizmet etmek, entelekt\u00fcelli\u011fe eklektik bakmak laz\u0131m. Bizden bir \u015fey bekleyenlere hikmet, bize bir \u015fey ekleyenlere minnet etmek laz\u0131m. Ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn ama geli\u015fmemiz laz\u0131m. Katma de\u011fer \u00fcr\u00fcne, kat\u0131 de\u011fer y\u00fcklemek laz\u0131m. Kendinizi sevin ama sizi sevmeyene sayg\u0131 duyun. Hem k\u00fcsene k\u00fcsmemek laz\u0131m.<br><br>Ho\u015f kal\u0131n \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bo\u015f kalmamam\u0131z laz\u0131m. K\u0131zmay\u0131n hem; dopamin salg\u0131lamam\u0131z laz\u0131m.<br><br>Yazar: Hac\u0131 Evren<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dikkat etmek laz\u0131m bazen; sevdi\u011fimize, sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze, g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze, di\u011fer bir\u00e7ok ho\u015f ve naho\u015f yanlar\u0131m\u0131za. Az\u0131msanmak ho\u015f de\u011fil. 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