{"id":1916,"date":"2020-04-19T15:17:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=1916"},"modified":"2020-04-19T15:17:18","modified_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:17:18","slug":"kendi-olmazim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/kendi-olmazim","title":{"rendered":"KEND\u0130 OLMAZIM"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bir c\u00fcmlenin kocaman bir ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6zetleyebilece\u011fine defalarca kez \u015fahit oldum. Bu c\u00fcmle de onlardan biri; Y\u00fcre\u011findeki pas\u0131 yaln\u0131zca sen silebilirsin. Bu c\u00fcmle insan\u0131n kendi biricikli\u011finden yola \u00e7\u0131karak en b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7isinin yine kendisi oldu\u011funu ifade ediyor ve ayn\u0131 zamanda insan\u0131n h\u00fczn\u00fcne veya \u00f6fkesine kadar uzanan geni\u015f bir yelpazeye sahip. Bu y\u00fczden benim i\u00e7in belirli zamanlarda bir\u00e7ok alanda kendini yineleyen ve kendini hat\u0131rlatan bir c\u00fcmledir bu. \u0130nsan\u0131n i\u00e7inde kendi hayalleri, idealleri ve ba\u015farmak istedikleri var ve haliyle ancak di\u011fer insanlarla baz\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131mlarda bulunarak bunlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oluyor ve insan\u0131 motive ediyor. Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler \u00e7evredeki di\u011fer insanlarla payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda her zaman olumlu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f al\u0131nm\u0131yor hatta bazen en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z destek olmas\u0131 gerekirken t\u00fcm k\u00f6stekli\u011fiyle kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda duruyor. Bu durum insana i\u00e7indeki t\u00fcm umudun bir vakum taraf\u0131ndan emildi\u011fi hissini veriyor. Bu hissin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkiyle ki\u015fi o \u00e7ok iste\u011fi hayalini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmekten vazge\u00e7iyor ve kendine verilen dar alanda ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fiden duyars\u0131n\u0131z b\u00f6yle bir fikrim vard\u0131 fakat yapmad\u0131m, \u015fu imkan\u0131m vard\u0131 ama yapmad\u0131m \u015feklindeki s\u00f6ylemleri. Neden diye soruldu\u011funda ise \u2018imkanlar el vermedi, izin verilmedi veya olmaz dediler\u2019 cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 duymam\u0131z ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Bunun arkas\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir ger\u00e7ek yatar; kendime tam olarak inanc\u0131m yoktu, cesaretlendirilmeye ihtiyac\u0131m vard\u0131, onlar olmaz dediler ve ben de onlar\u0131 dinledim. Bir de kendine inanan, inanc\u0131 i\u00e7in sava\u015fan insanlar var ki bu insanlar kendi isimlerini d\u00fcnyaya tan\u0131tm\u0131\u015f ve isteklerine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015flar. \u00d6rne\u011fin rengarenk d\u00fcnyas\u0131yla tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Walt Disney, gazete edit\u00f6r\u00fc taraf\u0131ndan \u2018hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcnden yoksun oldu\u011fu ve fikir \u00fcretemedi\u011fi\u2019 gerek\u00e7esiyle i\u015finden kovulmu\u015f ve iflasla sonu\u00e7lanan az \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015firketler kurmu\u015f, buna ra\u011fmen vazge\u00e7memi\u015f. Robert Goddard yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla d\u00f6nemindeki bilim insanlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan alaya al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, fikirlerinin sa\u00e7ma ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 oldu\u011fu iddia edilmi\u015f. Onlar\u0131 dinleyip s\u0131v\u0131 yak\u0131tl\u0131 roketler \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 b\u0131raksayd\u0131 bug\u00fcn uzay\u0131n bilinmezli\u011fine do\u011fru ke\u015ffe \u00e7\u0131kamam\u0131\u015f olurduk. Goddard gibi kendine inanmay\u0131 se\u00e7en d\u0131\u015far\u0131n\u0131n sesini k\u0131s\u0131p kendi \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131n sesini a\u00e7an herkesin gelecek nesillere katk\u0131da bulunaca\u011f\u0131 a\u015fikar. Bunun o kadar da kolay olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemiyorum. Kendi hakk\u0131ndaki her \u015feyin m\u00fckemmel olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015fan biri elbette olumsuz ele\u015ftirilerden etkilenecek, yapmak istedi\u011fi \u015feyi ba\u015flamadan bitirecek. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 tolerans\u0131 ki\u015finin kendisine de tan\u0131mas\u0131 gerekiyor. Ka\u00e7 kere d\u00fc\u015ferse d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn hi\u00e7 kimsenin onu tutup kald\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131 ihtimalini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ki\u015finin kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc korumas\u0131 gerekiyor. Ba\u015flamak ba\u015farman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 derler ya inanmak ba\u015farman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n olmazlar\u0131n\u0131 kendi olmaz\u0131n\u0131z haline getirmeyin. Yap\u0131labilirli\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her \u015fey sizin i\u00e7in m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00dcnalm\u0131\u015f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir c\u00fcmlenin kocaman bir ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6zetleyebilece\u011fine defalarca kez \u015fahit oldum. 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