{"id":1856,"date":"2020-04-19T13:09:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T10:09:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/?p=1856"},"modified":"2020-04-19T13:09:47","modified_gmt":"2020-04-19T10:09:47","slug":"hissettigini-yasayamama-sancisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tpocg.org\/blog\/hissettigini-yasayamama-sancisi","title":{"rendered":"H\u0130SSETT\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 YA\u015eAYAMAMA SANCISI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kelimeler bo\u011faza d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmlenir, ifade etmek istersin ama edemezsin, dokunmak istersin ancak dokunamazs\u0131n, birileri gelip sar\u0131l\u0131r sana ama a\u00e7amazs\u0131n kollar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6yle bir an gelir ki sevdi\u011fini dile getiremezsin. Zamanla bir bakm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n kendi duyguna yabanc\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bu duygu sana m\u0131 aitti yoksa bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na m\u0131 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flars\u0131n. Kimileri duygular\u0131n\u0131 bilerek ifade etmezken, kimileri duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmek istese de edememekte; en ac\u0131s\u0131 da bu de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neden bu kadar uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 dile getirmekten, kimdi duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n katili? Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar m\u0131 itmi\u015fti bizi kocaman bir sessizli\u011fe? H\u00fczn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc, sevincimizi, sevgimizi payla\u015fmaya lay\u0131k m\u0131 g\u00f6rmedik kimseyi yoksa payla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a m\u0131 k\u00f6reldik? H\u00fczn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc payla\u015ft\u0131k ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda o kadar \u00e7ok nasihat ald\u0131k ki. Belki de nasihata ihtiya\u00e7 duymuyorduk, tek ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z dinlenmekti ve dinlenmedi\u011fimizi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda h\u00fczn\u00fcm\u00fcz sessiz kal\u0131yordu. Sevincimizi payla\u015ft\u0131k, kursa\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kald\u0131; sevgimizi payla\u015ft\u0131k, sevgimiz hak etti\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulamad\u0131. O kadar \u00e7ok dinlenmedik ve o kadar \u00e7ok anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131k ki bir s\u00fcre sonra duygular\u0131m\u0131z avu\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131zda kalakald\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn biri sordu \u201c\u015eu anda ne hissediyorsun?\u201d diye, i\u015fte o zaman anlad\u0131n hislerine yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131. Sahi ne hissediyordun? Ne hissetti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek bu kadar zor olmamal\u0131yd\u0131. Mutlu muydun? \u00dczg\u00fcn m\u00fcyd\u00fcn? \u0130fade edilemeyen duygular gitgide dert oluyordu ve derdini anlatmayan derman\u0131n\u0131 da bulam\u0131yordu. Duygular\u0131m\u0131zla aram\u0131zda olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz o buzdan da\u011f, birileri \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p oraya en i\u00e7ten en samimi halinde dokunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda eriyip g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 oluyordu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/rujjbla6VZyVd8ZhkS0eRtuEHbypggz-u9RFIalE969bK9b_UvWiaUmBHrfQLmbM-TCeVspcspX3_td5Fz_rjwu05wnQr-CR9pXY4JE2WRGv5-_OO-BkjGaCI3YrBo3_rymS7hYOCMhs23GxhA\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sen hissetti\u011fini ya\u015fayamaman\u0131n sanc\u0131s\u0131nda k\u0131vran\u0131rken birileri hayat\u0131 hissetti\u011fi gibi ya\u015famaya, \u015fimdi ve burada kalmaya devam ediyordu. O y\u00fczden b\u0131rak gelip birileri o buzdan da\u011f\u0131n\u0131 eritsin. D\u00f6n y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcne\u015fe ve hayk\u0131r i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7en ne varsa. Duygular\u0131n\u0131 dile getiremedi\u011finde sar\u0131l s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 insanlara, ok\u015fa usulca yan\u0131na yakla\u015fan hayvan\u0131. G\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fren, g\u00fclmeyi \u00f6\u011fren ve en \u00f6nemlisi sevmeyi \u00f6\u011fren. Sev ki sevilesin.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yazar: Gizem Erdo\u011fan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kelimeler bo\u011faza d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmlenir, ifade etmek istersin ama edemezsin, dokunmak istersin ancak dokunamazs\u0131n, birileri gelip sar\u0131l\u0131r sana ama a\u00e7amazs\u0131n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":1857,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>H\u0130SSETT\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 YA\u015eAYAMAMA SANCISI | Ak\u0131l Defterim<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psikoloji \u00f6\u011frencilerinin kaleminden yaz\u0131lar.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link 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